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I have an experience with some guys in high school. I always know if he likes me or not, but it never happen. I was still strong to be being single through high school but I feel so depressed myself when every guys go out with girls on valentine's day. One time, I knew one guy who is cool and funny person, we knew each other as well through months. Once, we chatted each other, but sometimes he does not ask or tell meanything in person. Then I wonder if he thinks himself or not, I decided to tell him something after the party. I told him, I notice you're cool person, let you know I am really like you. He did not recongize or no feelings for me, did not tell me for few days. I try to say hi at him in person around the building, he was say hi then walk straight to the class. After the class, I ask him, do you really like me? He answered, "I prefer to be friend with you, okay." I was jsut respect at him all the time. I do not know if he likes me or not, I decide to move on and give him some space. Few days later, I heard from some friends who notice guy is just around with someone else around the cafeteria. I wonder why did he not like me, only he made his decision to choose the girl. I talked to few friends about the guy after the cafeteria, they explain to me make understand clearly. One of my friends told me, well, guy is scared if you decide to tell you like him, he seems walk away to find another girl. But the guy is kind of interesting in someone else, not for me, before I notice the guy is nice person to me. I was just accept if he likes someone else, but not for me. I was move on, and have a fun with friends.

Now, I was in college, I was happy person because I met someone else who tell me likes him. I was sure he likes me because I was good attractive to him while chatting with him.

I learned a lesson myself in high school. My advice to all of you that you need waiting to know if he or she likes you, just wondering about him or her. You need let someone else tell if he or she likes you. If he or she did not tell you if he or she likes you while both of you were chatting, it means do nothing with him or her, just move on.
 
I have an experience with some guys in high school. I always know if he likes me or not, but it never happen. I was still strong to be being single through high school but I feel so depressed myself when every guys go out with girls on valentine's day. One time, I knew one guy who is cool and funny person, we knew each other as well through months. Once, we chatted each other, but sometimes he does not ask or tell meanything in person. Then I wonder if he thinks himself or not, I decided to tell him something after the party. I told him, I notice you're cool person, let you know I am really like you. He did not recongize or no feelings for me, did not tell me for few days. I try to say hi at him in person around the building, he was say hi then walk straight to the class. After the class, I ask him, do you really like me? He answered, "I prefer to be friend with you, okay." I was jsut respect at him all the time. I do not know if he likes me or not, I decide to move on and give him some space. Few days later, I heard from some friends who notice guy is just around with someone else around the cafeteria. I wonder why did he not like me, only he made his decision to choose the girl. I talked to few friends about the guy after the cafeteria, they explain to me make understand clearly. One of my friends told me, well, guy is scared if you decide to tell you like him, he seems walk away to find another girl. But the guy is kind of interesting in someone else, not for me, before I notice the guy is nice person to me. I was just accept if he likes someone else, but not for me. I was move on, and have a fun with friends.

Now, I was in college, I was happy person because I met someone else who tell me likes him. I was sure he likes me because I was good attractive to him while chatting with him.

I learned a lesson myself in high school. My advice to all of you that you need waiting to know if he or she likes you, just wondering about him or her. You need let someone else tell if he or she likes you. If he or she did not tell you if he or she likes you while both of you were chatting, it means do nothing with him or her, just move on.

Never assume what they are thinking that's all I can say also it takes time to get to know the person can't right off the bat say I really like ya (sounds like you want them to yourself but beyond the friendship)... just go with the flow as you can predict after asking them if they really like you cause that's a strong question. Should be friends like you normally with your own friends and see how it develops... Never to think too much into it like what if or what isn't cause you making yourself sick.. He may be a great friend to you than being a date.. smile... hang in there SMILE!! life's too short to dwell on them. You are still young and there's alot more to life than wondering if they like you smile. hope I didn't offend you....
 
Discovery is better than expectation. Appreciate the discovery part of any relationship and this will help you let go of expectations.
 
Yes, the best part of the falling stage is learning the other person feels the same way. Finding a common like of something feels like a small mountain climbed. Telling someone your most inner secrets. When 2 people fall in love, there is an excitement in the air that makes an hour seem like a day.
Discovery is better than expectation. Appreciate the discovery part of any relationship and this will help you let go of expectations.
 
Originally Posted by saywhatkid:
the best part of the falling stage is learning the other person feels the same way.


Saywhatkid: Do I dare ask what happened next?
Was this the infinite moment you asked her to be your Lioness?


Originally Posted by nat84
You need let someone else tell if he or she likes you


nat84: If I understand you correctly, I don't usually get other people (like friends) involved in my dating because it confuses everyone. If someone intrigues me I let them know in subtle ways like flirting, innuendos, or simply stating that I appreciate their company. After we've communicated for a length of time we usually find that there is more than just friendship. If there is no spark of constellation occurs then I'm always happy to include another friend in my circle. Keep it simple and have fun.
 
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