what i meant is that his mom came over to the house and told me that all pets MUST go and that it is her HOUSE but she doesnt live in it? only me and david? she made it sound like i am not welcome? thats why i moved out...
she had no right to tell me what to do.. david only.. she butted in our marriage.. thats whats its all about.... he told me when he married me that he love animals and said that i can bring my dog mac and 2 cats with me to his house.. that was last Jan when i married him.. he knew i have responsiblities to my pets and TJ of course..
.my sister asked me if i could take care of 2 kittens who are only few days old as the mother abandoned them so i took them home iwth me to bottle feed them.. yet his mom came over and told me all pets must go...why now?? why not in beginning??? not make sense you know??
i dont want his house as he is still paying for it...it is his house.. he got it long time before married me.. so he should keep it.. thats what i believe in...
thats not the only reason why we are separated.. there are trust issues as david doesnt trust me as he cut phone off. he only think of himself.. not me and TJ.. why didnt he discussed that with me in first place? he just up and called phone co and tell them to disconnect phone out of blue and i didnt know? what if something happened to me and TJ while he is working overnight? someone break in .. house got on fire? how will i call then?
so he is immature and act like a kid.. telling me what to do.. im an adult? i know? im not that dumb? hes controlling me.. and i wont put up with it.. oh yeah where is the love and affection? he always ignored me when he came home from work and straight to shower then zoom to bed.. i have to come to him all times to kiss him and talk to him.. he act like he doesnt want to talk to me.. but now i know why... i think he was never in love with me in first place...
why are u telling me not to have a second marriage but have a boyfriend instead? you have no right to tell me what to do nor anyone else.. its my business or other's business... if i happened to meet someone later on and be happy... if he ask me to marry him.. i might or not... but i m not going to not for A WHILE! maybe i will never marry again...it is just piece of paper? too much hassles, i think... so really i gotta focus on myself and TJ right now... and my mom of course... please refrain from telling me ok? Thank you..
