Hi everyone, it doesn't mean that I ingored your posts when I quoted Freakcat's post because I know her and her posts well...
I'm sorry about your problem but all what I read that you all goes on well after divorce.. some legal separate... I think legal separate is better to think about either you can try to make your marriage work with him/her or not than just quick divorce.
I can understand it's different story if there're domestic volience in marriage...