thank you so much. ive been going through a rough time, ive had my parents to help and the rest of my extended family on my side, and my brother and his wife. its sad that when my dad was asked for my hand in marriage he made my soon to be ex husband promise that he would take care of me due to the fact a year almost 2 years ago i was diagnosed with hypothyroidism while is was in navy boot camp and was separated due to that whilst in basic. i have to see my specialist every 6 weeks now that i am pregnant. ive gone to doctors appts and they had asked why my blood pressure was so high, then they figured it was due to stress because my husband couldnt control his spending and every time i turned around money was missing from the account. he has proceeded to tell me that i am going to be a bad mother and that my daughter doesnt deserve to live with me, but in the state of virginia the only way the father would get custody is if the mother was found incompetent and was basically a crack whore/drug addict, which im neither. i have too much to look forward to in life and i wouldnt mess it up for something as stupid as drugs. the other situation i currently have is that my ex-fiance' and i have been talking and he knows about everything that has been happening. he has told me that he wants to be there to help me take care of Kira, my daughter, once she is here. he says he wants to be a father figure to her and for her to know that she is truly loved by someone other than her dead beat dad. does anyone have any advice on what i should do about being with my ex-fiance'? (we were engaged for 2 years when we split)
