Umm.. I read some of those. I am not correct or anything. Sometime people who is the parent not thinking what they or person is doing.
I have seen through my friend's parent lot different than my parent. For example; I was shock about one person parent beat him up front of me. I was scare because my parent didn't beat me up. How the beat up my friend; by the hand and slapping on my friend's head. I told my friend, "if you believe that he done wrong. All you have to do speak up to tell how the feel he toward you. Otherwise, just punch the number on tty '9-1-1' and it will taken care itself." So you can advise or share the expirence but that doesn't mean we are right all those stuff. It depends from all peer pressure from school include school's parents are seem different. What the most confuse me that my friend's beat parent went to church. It reallys not made sense at this moment until my friend end up against me and another because of the action has damaged.
That one thing about that damaged came from public or private school include some family member.
What the damaged lead that child to become not trust, disguest, and bitter against you or one of us who is parent. If the parent taught you something to protect yourself, trust, and be responible. When you turned out the other side to graduated (head to college) and then visit the parents. Not always happen but the common what I have see their parents are different than what they taught you or us. It kind of damaged and confused. No factor of support for each other.
I have see someone say about beer or wine but it can lead them to temple to drink while you are not around the house. It just too many issue out there and I know some of my friend end up. For example; that parent told one of my friend is okay to punch back if person hit my friend. Today; my friend in jail for murder. It kind of strange due the parents and school feed to building us into character who we are. It like they are molding you to be something but let it happen. Other exaple; I know person's family is wreath and rich and that guy is senior and wind up to jail due rape one woman include beating her half to death. We are suprise even his family is embrasses due his family strong foot step being doctor. Now he in jail and should be release next year or two year later.
Sometime; parents discover who got trouble for speeding ticket and parent yelled at person. What would the result for person to be against his or her own parent or accept? Sometime when pesron yell and scream all the time but where he or she learn to scream when someone try settle her/him down and snap out loud, "Its my body and I do whatever!" Have you see people talk like that word, "Its my body and I do whatever!" It has something that he/she learn that phase from somewhere?
Anyway.. I am just general about this issue but remember I am not saying I am right. Beside, I am fear about those issue because I don't want happen to my childern due I don't have one yet. It justs afriad that I am not being good enough for them as support, love, and be there for them. You know what I am saying? I better stop this line before I was going and typing more about this.
