To be honest. I would be offended if an outsider that doesn't know my situation tell me how to raise my child.
By Saying that parents are the one that has to raise that child.
If they are doing what they think is best for them let them.
I know alot of children hearing or deaf was raised in all kinds of differences. One can say could have, should have, and this is how the parent want to raise them.
Now I can not find no evidence that raising a child with a CI totally oral to be child abuse. But I can find it to be against the Deaf culture.
Alot of deafs may be against it. But it is the parents that are doing what they think its best for their child.
I can go back and ask.... If my parents done "this" or "that". That is not going to help. I know my parents did their best. I don't dwell on how they could have raised me. That to me would be uncalled for. I'm just not talking about deaf issues but in child rearing in general.
The parents will be the one to face their child if what they have done in the past by their child.
I'm Simply saying it is up to the parents.
So if we sat here with a general forum of child rearing it would be a complete mess!
Especially when it come to one that how one thinks it is the best for Their child
We may not all agree but as long the parent provide the best under Their circumstances we really, truely have no say.
We can give them advice. But we can not criticize them.
