Yes as matter of fact I know I'm partly blame for some of it and I acknowledge my mistake and I did apologized, I'm trying to be neutral and show more supportive toward the hearing parent's choices/decision etc.
I remember one of the member here asked me "you want the best for your child, want your child to have as many options in their life right? if your child was blind, would you deny a laser surgery to restore sight?" I just sat there not knowing what to say, I realized that these parents wasn't trying to make their children "hearing" like them. Sometimes mind can make wrong assumptions and make up things that are just not true, and that exactly what happened. I've been wrong on some things I've said and I'm still learning and willing to listen.
