There you go again with the blame game. Please refrain from doing that. I am sorry that you are frustrated and angry, but lashing out at others is not the solution.
Again, you can explain your feelings, your motives, your experiences. It is up to others to explain theirs.
Your experience, by your own admission, has been supportive within the deaf community. Perhaps it is not the deaf community alone that needs to change, but the hearing parents who are creating a negative reaction to themselves. A negative reaction that you, by your own admission, have not experienced. It certainly can't all be laid at the door of the deaf community, or you would have had a negative experience rather that thesupportive one you claim, and I would have had the same negative experience. I have not. You say you have not. Therefore, it is not just the responsibility of the deaf community, but an interaction between the deaf community and the hearing parents. That suggests that the responsibility lies as much on the parents as on the deaf community as a whole.
