Would you agree that a suggestion to perhaps do something a bit differently is a far way from telling someone that they are doing something wrong? I personally have seen several posters tell you exactly what you were doing right by placing your daughter in a bi-bi school and learning to sign yourself. It would appear that you are completely leaving that experience out of the equation, and obsessing over that which you feel was critical.
You continue to talk about "right and wrong". This is not a contest. It is an attempt to bridge a divide that in large part is created through judgements of "right and wrong" when it is entirely unnecessary to do so. If you continue to make it a contest of right and wrong, you will always have a battle on your hands, my dear.
