You mean like "NANANANA I DONT WANT TO HEAR IT! NANANANA!" 
I think perhaps we need to increase the efficiency of what we are trying to say to each other. I mean if one is genuinely concerned about the path of one's child, how about presenting options that meet halfway instead of telling them what to do?
Do you really expect parents to respond a "You need to put the child in a deaf school" with a "SIR, YES, SIR!"
