Many leave here, where there is a large percentage of culturally deaf, and spend their time in forums where the majority of posters are hearing parents with implanted children that subscribe to the same ideas they do. That is the whole point, vallee. An unwillingness to listen to, and provide validation for, any perspective that is not directly in line with their own.
These individuals are not looking for understanding or knowledge. They are looking for someone that agrees with them. Hardly the same thing at all. They are looking for reasurrance, not for information that could help them enrich not just their deaf child's life, but their opwn life, as well.