Is sharing really caring?

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Well I'm sure we have all heard the term "sharing is caring," but is it really? In terms of friends and exes. What I mean is, is it okay for your friend to date an ex, regardless of how long you have been friends. I talking about true friends not just the occasional hello to the girl down the road.

Another thing, I know some people get a bit frisky and bring other people into their relationships to share, do you think that really works out in the future. Is there staying power to that, or is a true relationship a closed one, between two parties?

So I have read that a few people on here are "friendly" for a lack of better words :giggle: . I can understand people being acquainted, you know, getting to know each other, there's no harm in that, however whether on here or any site how do you feel if there is one person, doesn't matter the sex, is trying to get comfy on one main site. Like taking a poop where they ate?

Your thoughts.
 
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honestly, if I was single and a gal pal broke up with a guy I wouldn't attempt to date him why? because I feel like I'm betraying the gal.

However, if the feeling is really strong, the least I could do is bring it to my friend's attention and say (of course, giving her loads of space and time to heal over the break up) "Hey, would you be offended if I told you I was interested in one of your exes?"
 
I think the dating the ex thing is partly about a person outside of the breakup not really understanding the reasoning behind it and choosing to basically force the two to continue having an acquaintance when one may be completely unwanted. That being said, if I had a good amicable breakup I don't see why this couldn't happen.
 
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Well imo I think exes are off limits. Too many fish in the sea to want someone elses leftovers, especially after that friend has told me all their ups and downs, etc. How I talk with my close friends, the details that I hear are usually not rated g and I can't imagine me wanting to have a go at that. I am also not into bringing people into my relationship.
 
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Well imo I think exes are off limits. Too many fish in the sea to want someone elses leftovers, especially after that friend has told me all their ups and downs, etc. How I talk with my close friends, the details that I hear are usually not rated g and I can't imagine me wanting to have a go at that. I am also not into bringing people into my relationship.
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Really! too many fish?? on sea I am puzzled it!!:lol:
 
There are unspoken rules of boundaries. Friends and ex's need to be kept separated on all levels.
 
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