That never happened to me... or maybe it did but I never noticed.
Usually the server will ask me a question and since it's noisy I wouldn't hear her, so I look at my husband all helpless and he repeats what she said.
It's handy to have a hearing husband that will repeat everything the other person said because the other person is rude and didn't want to face me so I can lip-read or thinks that "loud" is actually mumbling!