If someone like you....

The*Empress

The*Empress

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Don't you find it flattery....

Even if you're TAKEN or MARRIED....

Don't you like that when someone LIKE you, I mean like LIKE as in CRUSH
on YOU....

Don't the person know how to CONTROL him or herself...
Can he or she tell someone who LIKE him or her, that they can't
flirt with that someone.... because he or she is TAKEN or MARRIED...

And to jealous girlfriend, wife, husband, or boyfriend, don't you find
it flattery that someone like your lover? Why be so insecure?

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And another thing....

Why men here think I am Obsess with them? Just because
I was being silly and flirty, doesn't mean I really really really
in LOVE with you.

I am not a slut. And if I see that you're taken or married,
I won't cross that line.

I don't like anybody here... I just like to be silly and flirty...
And I don't mean to make someone insecure and making
them think I will take their partner....

I am not that way.

I met many married men that HIT on me and wanna sleep with me...
Do I go sleep with them?????? No.
Because I won't cross that line.

Because I DON'T want No rage wives or girlfriend jumping on me...
accusing me of taking her man.

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And if I want a man, I go get my own MAN, who is available for me.

All of my life, I never never never never never had a love relationship
with a man, so why do I WANT YOUR MAN???????:pissed:
 
Well, someone will want to date you and marry you. And don't worry, that person will be just as normal as you are.
 
To let you know, The*Empress ... you are not alone, I am scared as well.. I like this girl, she is from Sydney, I am 2 hours away from her and I regularly visit Sydney all the time, but she only have feelings as a friend, but it is only the beginning though. I don't know what happens between us, we are friends at the moment.
 
I like my independent.... I wanna be me... I wanna fart, burp,
eat with my mouth open, I don't wanna work hard for someone...

I love my independent... I am scare to lose my freedom.

If I marry a guy....

He may change... and I would see him digging his nose, peeing on
the toliet seat, thinking about cheating on me, me argue with him
about a lot of things, and him hating the way I clean up the house...

I don't wanna deal with that. It is too much compromise for me.

I respect marriage and God... I would rather marry God than to marry
a man. Because I don't trust man.

I don't even like living with my mom... and I have to put up
with her....

When I was living by myself in Apartment, it was so peaceful....

I can eat whenever I feel like it, I wash dishes everyday,
I watch tv all day, I buy any food I want in the grocery store....
I love to rent movies everyday.... and I had 3 dogs.... I spend
so much time playing with them.

So anyway.... I'm thinking about getting me an one bedroom and one bathroom apartment...
but I gotta pay off my college loan first...
I will stay right here in Mississippi.... and after I pay off my college loan,
I'm gonna find me an apartment here in Mississippi, and I'm gonna
live on my own... I'm gonna get me a cat or a bird...
And also I gonna get me an internet... and then I'm gonna be happy
happy, happy, happy, happy.....

And I don't need a man....
 
i like this guy and he likes me but i don't care of losing my freedom i can still have my freedom he still can have freedom so what
 
Well if he said he is pro gay marriage and if I said I am anti gay marriage,
will he not love me anymore???

If I get a husband, will he hate me because of my opinion?
 
The*Empress said:
Well if he said he is pro gay marriage and if I said I am anti gay marriage,
will he not love me anymore???

If I get a husband, will he hate me because of my opinion?
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That is the one thing that makes the relationship fun. You guys can't have the same opinion abt everything. There are things that my wife agrees with and I don't and thinfs I agree with and she forbids it. It is called compromise and having own opinions abt things. Your hubby(just picking on u empress, I know it just a guy) will love you no matter what!!! Now, if that makes a difference for for him, then he is just an @$$ and shouldn't have a gf to start with. Now that don't make a difference, you guys have a blast together. Who wants to date someone just like them??? I know I would be driving myself crazy if it was like that.
 
Handsome_Smiley said:
That is the one thing that makes the relationship fun. You guys can't have the same opinion abt everything. There are things that my wife agrees with and I don't and thinfs I agree with and she forbids it. It is called compromise and having own opinions abt things. Your hubby(just picking on u empress, I know it just a guy) will love you no matter what!!! Now, if that makes a difference for for him, then he is just an @$$ and shouldn't have a gf to start with. Now that don't make a difference, you guys have a blast together. Who wants to date someone just like them??? I know I would be driving myself crazy if it was like that.
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I don't have a husband, I said IF I have a husband.

oh okay... thannks.
 
The*Empress said:
I know that, but I am scare. :Ohno: :run:
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honestly im scared too cuz i ve been recently hurted by someone but i m over it already but nevertheless i m scared to date again i mean i want to get married but will i get hurt again? i m so tired to being hurted i m so tried of pain and suffering i m so tired to be homeless because of the relationship break ups so i know how you feel empress i am single right now and not reallfy looking i mean it would be nice for a woman to like me but will i be able to committ my life to her? i m scared to do that it ll take time you know? so i know your pain i know you rfear
 
I am deeply heartbroken now since I was cheated .. but I still trust my real friends and still feel bright breezes of wind coming from true love which is in my heart :)

Life goes on .. and I am on my way to the right person in the future :D

and I am rebuilding .. :D
 
Cause our animal side wants us to reproduce like crazy. Some ppl can control it while others think they need to get their grove on anything that will give them a second glance.
 
Handsome_Smiley said:
Cause our animal side wants us to reproduce like crazy. Some ppl can control it while others think they need to get their grove on anything that will give them a second glance.
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yeah, Marriage is for uncontrollable people... that way they won't have
babies all over the place and can't take care of them financially.

I can control myself, so therefore I don't need to get marry.
 
Handsome_Smiley said:
That is the one thing that makes the relationship fun. You guys can't have the same opinion abt everything. There are things that my wife agrees with and I don't and thinfs I agree with and she forbids it. It is called compromise and having own opinions abt things. Your hubby(just picking on u empress, I know it just a guy) will love you no matter what!!! Now, if that makes a difference for for him, then he is just an @$$ and shouldn't have a gf to start with. Now that don't make a difference, you guys have a blast together. Who wants to date someone just like them??? I know I would be driving myself crazy if it was like that.
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Yea, I agree with him... :)
 
i am scared too.. look at me.. i am 34 yrs old.. never married.. but have one son which is TJ.. I am thankful I have him in my life.. i am not scared to have kids.. but when it come to commitment.. Yikes! lol

i am scared to make a commitment and being cheated on and hurt in the past? all of my brothers and my sisters have gotten married before the age of 18 then divorced by the age of 20 yrs old? i am the only old maid in the family!
everyone said im too picky.. but i believe i made right choices in some areas like respect my body. I know love can overcome any obstacles. I know everyone have flaws.. but still im picky like no drugs, no drinking, and understand the privacy values, honesty, and etc. its hard to find someone who u can truly love for who you are.. i know i aint perfect.. but i know there is someone out there right one for me.. i just havent found him yet... smile..
 
The*Empress said:
I don't trust anybody. People hurt me all the time.
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That's sad cause how can you have a relationship with someone if you can't trust no one? since trust is the key of having a lifetime relationship, if there's no trust, then there's no relationship :-/


And remember being in love is a beautiful thing... :)
 
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