Iam a hearin man in love with DEAF WOMAN [PLEASE HELP!!!]

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what am i doin wrong??? i been with my kids mom for 12+ years but right now we are havin weird problems....first let me say she is the first deaf woman i ever meet an when i first saw her i felt love at first site dispite her hearin problem i never really tripped off of that ..i did an im still learnin sighn an i love it ..but.. there seems to be somthing im missin because we are soon parting ...an we have 4 kids together ..i love being a father ..i love her an im allways open to learn an grow an understand an be patient an to build more intrest in learnin about the deaf culture..but...she feels we been together to long so see wants to end it an im dont want to but i have to resect how see feels but i dont think she understand that im a very good man an we just had a bummpy start ..now i feel if we do part i will be lost but then i was thinkin of askin her to marry me !! but im not sure im like an old school guy i like bein a family man i like that im a father ....what can i do to save this to show her she can belive in me an trust me an know that i am her ears an that we can over come this small problem once she payattention to me ..but i see her attitude is diffrent an i see she is closin me out .....to make this long story short i dont want to lose her i feel we are past the hard shit now its time to take 3 big steps like marriage or new baby or somthing ...BUT I NEED ADVICE NOW AN FOREAL SO SOMEONE PLEASE GUIDE ME TELL ME I CAN DO????????:hmm::Ohno::dunno2: I LOVE HER IM SO SERIOUS
 
I See Now That Some Deaf People Just Like Hearin Play Stupid Childish Game The One Biggest Diffrent Thing Is Deaf People Can Play The Ignore Game Better .because All They Have To Do Is Close There Eyes Or Turn There Head When Ur Signin.....yes Im Hurt Iam Man Enough To Admit It ..i've Never Had Some One Play With My Heart Like This.but All I Can Do Is Pray To Stay Strong. I Hope I Can Find Another Deaf Woman I Can Grow With An Learn With ......iam Sorry To Any One Deaf If I Affend Them I Do Enjoy The Deaf Culture An I Will Keep Learnin Asl ...my Dream Is To Marry Some One I Can Be Happy With No Matter If Deaf Or Hearin
 
tell her out from your heart until it rip out of your chest.
 
Well, I've read your post. If you don't ask her to marry you then you don't have a chance in hell.
 
U Know The One Problem Im Havin Is That She Met New Deaf People ..which Is Fine... But I Can Now See She Has Totally Changed On Me Its Like She Is Tellin All These New People Our Bizzness. Now She Is Actin Like My Sign Is Not Good Enough Or When I Do Try To Communicate She Blows Me Off An I Did Expreess My Total Love For Her But ..i Guess I Will See What She Say When I Do Buy The Ring An Ask Her To Marry Me ....its Hard For Me To Walk Away From My Family But I Need More Than Just Be Boyfriend I Want To Stay A Family .....but!!!
 
U Know What Just Fuck It She Wont Marry Me So Fuck It ...thank U To The People Who Post...but I See She Told Me She Is Low An She Cant Get High Like Learn Or Change Or Communicate So... I Just Wasted My Heart On Woman Who Never Cared For Me An Dont Care Now So I Feel Like A Dam Fool!!!!!!!!!!
 
RON916 said:
U Know What Just Fuck It She Wont Marry Me So Fuck It ...thank U To The People Who Post...but I See She Told Me She Is Low An She Cant Get High Like Learn Or Change Or Communicate So... I Just Wasted My Heart On Woman Who Never Cared For Me An Dont Care Now So I Feel Like A Dam Fool!!!!!!!!!!
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Well, the lure and pull of deaf culture is very strong, Sir.
 
If she (and you) want a marriage counselor to work things out, find one that knows sign language. Yes, it is hard to find one.
 
RON916 said:
U Know The One Problem Im Havin Is That She Met New Deaf People ..which Is Fine... But I Can Now See She Has Totally Changed On Me Its Like She Is Tellin All These New People Our Bizzness. Now She Is Actin Like My Sign Is Not Good Enough Or When I Do Try To Communicate She Blows Me Off An I Did Expreess My Total Love For Her But ..i Guess I Will See What She Say When I Do Buy The Ring An Ask Her To Marry Me ....its Hard For Me To Walk Away From My Family But I Need More Than Just Be Boyfriend I Want To Stay A Family .....but!!!
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That is the norm of the Deaf culture as we share information with one another. It's no different with two hearing people getting together to share business.

RON916 said:
U Know What Just Fuck It She Wont Marry Me So Fuck It ...thank U To The People Who Post...but I See She Told Me She Is Low An She Cant Get High Like Learn Or Change Or Communicate So... I Just Wasted My Heart On Woman Who Never Cared For Me An Dont Care Now So I Feel Like A Dam Fool!!!!!!!!!!
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Did you ask her?

RON916 said:
what am i doin wrong??? i been with my kids mom for 12+ years but right now we are havin weird problems....first let me say she is the first deaf woman i ever meet an when i first saw her i felt love at first site dispite her hearin problem i never really tripped off of that ..i did an im still learnin sighn an i love it ..but.. there seems to be somthing im missin because we are soon parting ...an we have 4 kids together ..i love being a father ..i love her an im allways open to learn an grow an understand an be patient an to build more intrest in learnin about the deaf culture..but...she feels we been together to long so see wants to end it an im dont want to but i have to resect how see feels but i dont think she understand that im a very good man an we just had a bummpy start ..now i feel if we do part i will be lost but then i was thinkin of askin her to marry me !! but im not sure im like an old school guy i like bein a family man i like that im a father ....what can i do to save this to show her she can belive in me an trust me an know that i am her ears an that we can over come this small problem once she payattention to me ..but i see her attitude is diffrent an i see she is closin me out .....to make this long story short i dont want to lose her i feel we are past the hard shit now its time to take 3 big steps like marriage or new baby or somthing ...BUT I NEED ADVICE NOW AN FOREAL SO SOMEONE PLEASE GUIDE ME TELL ME I CAN DO????????:hmm::Ohno::dunno2: I LOVE HER IM SO SERIOUS
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It's taking you more than 12+ years to ask this woman to marry you?

Maybe that is why she is getting tired of you because she is tired of waiting for you to pop the question. If you are having issues now, I wouldn't propose marriage until the problems are solved....

Good luck!
 
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