Well, sure, we understand completely. But this is a deaf forum and the topics here are of interest to the deaf. Whether we knew the person personally or not.
I feel so bad for you, her friends and her family! Perhaps you can act as a buffer and keep us informed here so that we can become more personally involved?
We would appreciate that very much and perhaps it would be good "therapy" for you, also.
Hugs, Rip
