I might have a new crush on a guy...

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I think I have a crush on a new guy...he's deaf as well. He's 2 years older than i am so its not that bad. I know alot of people don't approve on 15 year olds dating a 16 or 17 year old guy. But My mom is 42 and my dad is 47. And I know alot of you date people who are a year or 2 years older than you are.

I always thought that it'd feel right to date a guy my age. But My crush; his name is Ivan. not I-van. It's pronouced: E-van. The name sounds like Ivan, as in I-van, But the van part in I-van for E-van is the right way to say it with the E sound in it. Sorry, kind of got complicated there, I just had to explain.

I haven't seen Ivan for a year since my 14th birthday. Well actually 2 years. And we've been texting. I haven't been able to talk lately since i was busy with marching band and stuff. Me and him have been friends for about 8 years. But The thing is, I don't know if I like him while there's another guy I like. That other guy name is Mitch, and he's hearing. Ivan lives in Vandilia here in ohio. But Mitch lives in the same city as me. But Ivan sended me a picture of him, and He totally caught me off guard. His hair that I used to remember, has grown out a little bit. And looked a little bit of a jock/skater boyish hairstyle. I just imagined with ivan and me, at my old elementary playground, sitting in the swings, and he kissed me and I hold his hair in my hands like they do in the movies.

I know, sounds mushy. hmm, I might be in love with him but idk yet. I'm still figuring things out. I just wanted to type this out. ;)
 
Hello again, coolspyergirl. As all of us old ladies keep telling you, concentrate on your schoolwork. :)
 
Bottesini said:
Hello again, coolspyergirl. As all of us old ladies keep telling you, concentrate on your schoolwork. :)
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:giggle: I know, I will. I'm sorry. My heads just got into the clouds for a moment. But apparently I'm having a 3 and a half day weekend off this weekend because My high school has parent teacher confrences all weekend. I had early dismissal today. But my sister have school. I feel bad. But oh well. Sorry went off topic.

But I'm still figuring things out about wether I love Ivan, or if i have a crush on mitch..
 
Good luck with him eh!

Dont worry about the old ladies. My 15 year old neighbour was blabbing about how hot the young boys in his age are to my 14 year old sister last night, I was like WTF!
 
aww sweet. yes bottesini is correct. out there are tooooooooooooooooooo many guys are around.. not an easy decision.

school, good times with girlfriends, volunteers, and fun fun fun fun comes first. =D
 
Frisky Feline said:
aww sweet. yes bottesini is correct. out there are tooooooooooooooooooo many guys are around.. not an easy decision.

school, good times with girlfriends, volunteers, and fun fun fun fun comes first. =D
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Excatly!!! There are too many cute guys at schools And you can barely decide which one you can have a crush on. I love school. So I'm not worried about not making good grades. Because I want to try and get into education when i'm in college. I actually had to help my friend Katie for an idea for a date with her new crush name Brian. They're both hearing. This is my convo with her:

Katie- I want to ask Brian out next weekend to hang out. But I need helppp...
Me- I can help..
Katie- Good, Help!!
Katie-But no movie. its too old-fashioned.
Me- haha okay okay..*thinking* How about...Laser Web or going to the mall?
Katie- Ahh laser web...Hellz ya!!
Me-Haha, Brian can invite a bunch of his friends and you can invite a bunch of yours so that way its not really a date its more of a hang out kind of thing.
Katie- It sounds PER-FECT!
Me-Good, And you can kiss him in the dark and that'd be all romantic.
Katie- I'd do that anytime :)


But Ivan showed me a picture of him on my phone for my phone ID, I thought he would look the same as before. But his hairstyle was different, and it totally caught me off guard. He looked cute. And I kind of got mushy at the same time. But when he sended me a picture of him, I thought I was going to faint. I was like: "whoa..." and my heart started pounding, I had my 'ears' off at the time and i can still hear my heart pounding. Kind of weird huh?? But whenever my ears are off, my brain imagines the sounds. Sorry off topic..-- On aim, he has a icon of himself looking like a skater boy. But I thought that wasn't really him. But since he sended me a picture of him, His hair on his AIM icon kind of matched. But he tried making himself look cooler by wearing a hat and glasses on his icon. Which I thought he didn't have to do. So now, Everytime I was in bed, I felt like He was next to me. And he was holding me. But his hairstyle totally caught me off guard.
 
JClarke said:
Good luck with him eh!

Dont worry about the old ladies. My 15 year old neighbour was blabbing about how hot the young boys in his age are to my 14 year old sister last night, I was like WTF!
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:laugh2: wowwwwwwww...that was hilarious


I talked to ivan all weekend... *sighs dreamily* lol.. But I tried flirting with him but i don't know if he got a clue that i was trying to flirt with him...
 
oh ya'all young loves.... such youth...
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when I was 17, I dated a 19 year old...my mom did not like that at all...I dont think 15 dating a 17 year old isnt as bad.

I have reconnected with several of my high school friends via FB and one of them married her high school sweetheart who was also in my high school. He was 2 years older than she was and they started dating when she was 15 and he was 17...now, 21 years later, they are still together.

never know but they did wait to get married until they were done with college and all that.


Enjoy the fun times with your crushes!
 
JClarke said:
Give it a shot ;)



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lol where did you get that icon?? Jw--(just wondering)

Does guys have any clue when a girl tries to flirt with you?? I mean my friend katie and I tried flirting with a guy and they just don't get it. But they know that they're flirting to us when they're doing it....Sometimes i wonder what goes on in a boy's brain...:hmm: :cool2:
 
I stole it from Jiro

(Right click the icon, and select properites, and then copy the URL)
 
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