Oh no, you are not whine anything but wondering.
Yes I noticed, too.
Let me share about my country.
My favorite series (like Dallas, Denver etc.) every Sunday... There're lesbians and gays in series - I know 3 of them are gay/lesbian in real life and others not.
The series, I saw every Sunday - 2 ladies kisses each other is straight and happily married with their own families. 2 men kisses - one is gay and one is straight...
I beleive the reason why they show what lesbians/gays really is because everyone should aware what really they are and where they come from instead of negative them... It's good sense to show anyone including children what lesbians and gays really are...
I aware there're lesbians and gays around in Hollywood... Example about Dean James, Rock Hudson, etc...
It's not just lesbians and gays, the straight people play but deafies as well... They (hearing) also play as deafies people as well...
In my opinion, straight people take alot of opportunities than glbt people are.
