hurt:(

[sharonmarie21]

I have been dating this guy on and off for two years and yet I dont feel good enough for him.

 

[warpedpink]

Why not?

 

[deafbajagal]

If a guy makes you feel that way, he's not worth it.

 

[drphil]

Sharonmarie21 is your thought" on not being good enough for him" valid--based on what? After "validating your thoughts" then decide if "worth continuing".

Implanted Advanced Bionics-Harmony activated Aug/07

 

[planetdoodle]

Sounds like self-esteem promblems

 

[Phillips]

Threw him out! Find a good man! Good luck

 

[webexplorer]

Threw him out! Find a good man! Good luck

That's right!

 

[drphil]

sharonmarie21: if you are near any public libraries-there are many books on your situation-consider my user name's book: LoveSmart: Find the one you want . Fix the one you got.

Happy reading

Implanted Advanced Bionics-Harmony activated Aug/07

 

[Dixie]

Be done with him!!! You need someone that is an equal and doesn't make you feel inferior. Believe me, I have been down this road and it's best to just throw him out and move on.

 

[Beach girl]

Wait a minute though, is the issue that "he" doesn't think you are good enough, or does he like you just fine and "you" are the one thinking you don't measure up?

I'll tell you this, each and every one of us, hearing, non-hearing; athletic, non-athletic; model-gorgeous, not so model-gorgeous, has good points and less good points. I won't say "bad" points, because it's not a value judgement, but let's say we all have strengths and weaknesses.

Does he like you as you are, for whatever strengths you have that he finds attractive? Or is he complaining? If the latter, then, yes, cut your losses. But if he likes you but you feel uncertain, that's a different issue.