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Lil_country_gal

Lil_country_gal

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My best friend is just starting to come out of the closet as being bi she told me an my bf but she is very afraid to tell her bf she doesn't know how to tell him and I can't think of how to tell him besides just to say hunny i'm bi. so Both her and i would appreciate your ideas. No ideas will be shot done i will run them all by her. Thank ya'll very much
 
Ah that is very very difficult. That is something that I don't know many gays want to advise on. That is a very personal experience and it is different with every person you come out to and everytime you do it. It is not some I would want to say do this say that. That is a path every LGBT person has to walk themselves. You can support your friend but she has to take that lead. I wish her luck though.
 
Honesty is the best policy. There is no way to sugarcoat it except just tell her bf what her heart feels.
 
Well she did it! today while i was with her called him said baby i've got something to tell you.... I'm bi..... He was so shocked he didn't talk and than hung up. I got a panic call later for him saying he was violantly sick because he was so scared he was going to lose her now because she is bi
 
If was me

Just tell her boyfriend and No longer with him! Then Don't need tell him about her Bi..

Wait and Everything cool down...

then to be date with Bi

that s simple and Not cause his pain and shock

Or Maybe I am wrong! :dunno:
 
Both of them got pretty scared things i think are starting to calm down she had to promise him that nothing would happen between her and another girl ever to calm his fear of her ever leaving him for another girl.
 
Happy to hear that everything worked out. I would have advised(which probly would not be a good way) would ask him if it would be ok to have a 3some with him and another gal. Let him know that it something she would LOVE to try. If he don't get that hint, then just get a big old sign when get together for the 3some that she likes gals too.

Now, I was not being rude or mean, it just something that suddle and would also full-fill his sexual dream.
 
Uhhh no i know for a fact he hates 3 somes and everything didn't work out the way she wanted it to shewants to still be able to fool around while stilling being his love
 
Lil_country_gal said:
Uhhh no i know for a fact he hates 3 somes and everything didn't work out the way she wanted it to shewants to still be able to fool around while stilling being his love
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Sorry, that is the only problem that I see. Can't have the best of both worlds. She will either be single and enjoy anyone she wants or be in a relationship. I wouldn't want to be the fall-back person if my wife couldn't find anyone to mingle with that night(if we had that kind of marriage).
 
Handsome_Smiley said:
Sorry, that is the only problem that I see. Can't have the best of both worlds. She will either be single and enjoy anyone she wants or be in a relationship. I wouldn't want to be the fall-back person if my wife couldn't find anyone to mingle with that night(if we had that kind of marriage).
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I don't know i guess I kinda see with her because my bf encouranged me to have a gf too. And not for his pleasure too. So i don't know please no bashing on that but yes I have a bf and a gf and they are both very happy with the situation we have and so am i.
 
Lil_country_gal said:
I don't know i guess I kinda see with her because my bf encouranged me to have a gf too. And not for his pleasure too. So i don't know please no bashing on that but yes I have a bf and a gf and they are both very happy with the situation we have and so am i.
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Wow...u are one lucky gal that there is no jealousy involved cuz it usually doesnt work that way. HMMM..I wonder if my hubby would allow me to have a bf. :giggle:
 
shel90 said:
Wow...u are one lucky gal that there is no jealousy involved cuz it usually doesnt work that way. HMMM..I wonder if my hubby would allow me to have a bf. :giggle:
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Lol i don't know if that would work. But yeah I am very lucky that it works out like that. See my girlfriend is alowwed to have a bf and so am I, but another girlfriend is not alowwed. I asked my girlfriend to "Marry me" and she said yes. We are having just a wedding you know minus the law lol and it will be our personal vows to each other, because we've never felt so comfortable with another girl and yeah soo. yeah lol
 
Yeah! it is a very normal to be in shocked. Same for my Mom when I told her that I am lesbian, and she went like WHAT!? :jaw: I was like oh my! but--- I'm glad that I did because that made me felt much better not have to... worried ya know, but yes, it is shocked that he found out about you, he will be allright! :D
 
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