How will guy ready to ask the girl for out or be girlfriend?
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Look down inside your pants. See anything hanging there besides a penis? Like BALLS? Use them! Or grow some!
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Your method is much nicer than mine. I am just reciting what I was told back in the day. I guess I was a tad harsh....Hey get some courage! If he is old enough, I would say drink a little courage!
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Your method is true in a way. I thought it was funny. Sometimes some people need that method as a nudge into the right direction!
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well u just try ur best and ask this girl and if she say no then respect her.. then move on
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i felt that i was rejected by this guy cuz of how he feels about relationships that he not wanna to have one oh well
If it feels right, and the timing is right, go for it, it's better to find out, than holding it off and wondering if she'll say yes, or if she'll say no. But, there's no rush or time limited, if you know her that well enough, and fall in love, then ask her to be your girlfriend, if you don't even know her well enough yet, go out on a date or keep communication going to the level of getting to know her better before asking her to be your girlfriend.
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slap her around a little bit. if she doesnt run away and call the cops then you've got a keeper!!!! or u can just say "do u wanna go out sometime" but either way, dont sit there and wonder what u should do... DO SOMETHING 
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1. Get to know her. Hang out with her friends.
2. Approach the girl you like. Try to dress fairly decent, but don't overdo it.
3. Engage her in friendly conversation. You will find that conversation will flow a lot easier if you speak about a topic which both of you have some knowledge of and an interest in.
4. Gauge her interest. Take notice of eye contact, smiling, laughter, and enthusiasm in her responses.
5. Ease into your invitation. After you have been talking for awhile, though, say something like, "Hey I'm going or doing whatever this weekend. How would you like to tag along? I promise it'll be more interesting than whatever you had planned." Say this with a small smile, teasingly. Do not use a cheesy pickup line! Think about how you want to steer the conversation around to asking her out.
6. Keep your cool if she says no. Don't take it personally. Continue to make an effort to hang out with her and get to know her. Once she knows you better, she may grow to like you. Given enough time, she might even end up asking you out. At the same time, don't pressure or harass her, and take the hint if she's really not interested or if she's got her eyes on someone else.
If all fails remember there's lots of fish in the sea!
2. Approach the girl you like. Try to dress fairly decent, but don't overdo it.
3. Engage her in friendly conversation. You will find that conversation will flow a lot easier if you speak about a topic which both of you have some knowledge of and an interest in.
4. Gauge her interest. Take notice of eye contact, smiling, laughter, and enthusiasm in her responses.
5. Ease into your invitation. After you have been talking for awhile, though, say something like, "Hey I'm going or doing whatever this weekend. How would you like to tag along? I promise it'll be more interesting than whatever you had planned." Say this with a small smile, teasingly. Do not use a cheesy pickup line! Think about how you want to steer the conversation around to asking her out.
6. Keep your cool if she says no. Don't take it personally. Continue to make an effort to hang out with her and get to know her. Once she knows you better, she may grow to like you. Given enough time, she might even end up asking you out. At the same time, don't pressure or harass her, and take the hint if she's really not interested or if she's got her eyes on someone else.
If all fails remember there's lots of fish in the sea!
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Hi there! Shy? Understood! I was there way back then with nervous rather than shyness. I often put my hands in pockets! Ha. Well that was the 80s. This is the 21st Century with much senstitiveness, careful but best way is to get to know the gal. You should try the slow approch. Do not ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend. That is more like a 10 years old would say. Ask her out for a date. That is much better line to say. Say this way.. ask her out to someplace public that SHE likes to do, not you. HER! Remember this, you are showing you like her and thinking of her.
Out for dinner is best than taking her to the movies. In theaters, you cant really talk since you sit for 2 and half hours quietly watching Jackie Chan and Chris Tucker doing all the kicking and fighting or James Bond making love to another hottie. Dinner is more approch and very public. Not ready for that? Try to go for a walk through your hometown city street with cute gift shops. Or go to an event you both like. For example, I would do something unusual such as take (in my past) a girl to the snowmobile show to see the newest models. If she likes that, you got your answer.
Best way you can tell if she likes you and wants to make a move, usually the man makes the first move, engage in a conversation between both of you and see how it goes.
That is how I can tell the ladies interested in me or not right up to the one I married to.
For that case, I was a volunteer at a singles dance and an unofficial "welcome committee member", I welcome newcomers to make them feel comfortable and feel like right at home at the dances. Often singles are very nervous and shy than married ones. Well, that was my job and I met my wife, Tara by meeting her and her sister to the dance but I overstayed by kept talking for more than an hour with her. Then it was time for me to do the admissions at the door. SHE came up to me. No other single women at the dances in my 5 plus years to come up to me at the admission table to talk but Tara (my wife). Tara was only one to do so and I knew she is the one I am to marry to. We kept talking. Then I asked her to dance with me later when I finished the admissions. Then I knew she showed interest in me so I asked her for her phone number. I called her and asked her for a date. She said yes. Each time it happened, she said yes on and on. Then it solidify as a girlfriend rather than a friend.
That is how you know. I never asked Tara to be my girlfriend. We confirmed it with kissing each other. You only can ask the woman is for her hand in marriage, not for a relationship as girlfriend boyfriend.
Communication is important. We communicated much more and I became so open minded with my wife than any ladies in the past. It was always either I run or they run from me.
I hope this helps! We got married August 12, 2006, about 2 and half years. We took time! One year planning to marry.
Smile and have a great sense of humor are two greatest benefits to attract someone!! Dont think about having a relationship. Women can see that and RUN! That was happening to me in my 20s and 30s. I didnt with Tara and it worked! I learned that lesson.
When in relationship, COMMIT AND COMMUNICATION are important!
Out for dinner is best than taking her to the movies. In theaters, you cant really talk since you sit for 2 and half hours quietly watching Jackie Chan and Chris Tucker doing all the kicking and fighting or James Bond making love to another hottie. Dinner is more approch and very public. Not ready for that? Try to go for a walk through your hometown city street with cute gift shops. Or go to an event you both like. For example, I would do something unusual such as take (in my past) a girl to the snowmobile show to see the newest models. If she likes that, you got your answer.
Best way you can tell if she likes you and wants to make a move, usually the man makes the first move, engage in a conversation between both of you and see how it goes.
That is how I can tell the ladies interested in me or not right up to the one I married to.
For that case, I was a volunteer at a singles dance and an unofficial "welcome committee member", I welcome newcomers to make them feel comfortable and feel like right at home at the dances. Often singles are very nervous and shy than married ones. Well, that was my job and I met my wife, Tara by meeting her and her sister to the dance but I overstayed by kept talking for more than an hour with her. Then it was time for me to do the admissions at the door. SHE came up to me. No other single women at the dances in my 5 plus years to come up to me at the admission table to talk but Tara (my wife). Tara was only one to do so and I knew she is the one I am to marry to. We kept talking. Then I asked her to dance with me later when I finished the admissions. Then I knew she showed interest in me so I asked her for her phone number. I called her and asked her for a date. She said yes. Each time it happened, she said yes on and on. Then it solidify as a girlfriend rather than a friend.
That is how you know. I never asked Tara to be my girlfriend. We confirmed it with kissing each other. You only can ask the woman is for her hand in marriage, not for a relationship as girlfriend boyfriend.
Communication is important. We communicated much more and I became so open minded with my wife than any ladies in the past. It was always either I run or they run from me.
I hope this helps! We got married August 12, 2006, about 2 and half years. We took time! One year planning to marry.
Smile and have a great sense of humor are two greatest benefits to attract someone!! Dont think about having a relationship. Women can see that and RUN! That was happening to me in my 20s and 30s. I didnt with Tara and it worked! I learned that lesson.
When in relationship, COMMIT AND COMMUNICATION are important!
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agreed!
I agree with you, Mouse! That is what I was thinking and thats in my book I wrote about dating.
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You wrote a book!!!! ****Super trooper****
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be yourself, use your balls if you got 'em? - ask the woman out right away - don't wait, otherwise other guy will be very lucky to get her before you do.