Asperger's is not the same for each and every person so it may be hard to tell if a person has asperger's . When my niece starting dating her boyfriend
he told her he had asperger's , and my niece said she also has asperger's. They did not know one another had asperger's , they do have a lot in common. I agree with what other said , go for it, ask her out for coffee or an ice cream cone .