How to talk to a complicated boy

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hi.. i was thinking how to talk to a boy, i have a friend and he's the one that i like i always want to talk something interesting with him but i can't think of an idea (P.s we're middle school) if you ask about interest he always said secret and never told me ..it's kinda hard to talk to him
we're only talking when i have a homework and asked him/assigment to do /group work,i really like him but he won't open up to me.. please give me a idea to make him like me/open up to me at least
thanks
 
You didn't say who was deaf or not deaf. Who knows ASL or not? Most important question you would ask is whether aliens would rule the world.
 
Boys do not open up easily. It takes a long time. I suggest you show him a picture of a car or truck and ask him if he likes it....it might trigger a conversation.
 
do a Lady Gaga thing that will grab his attention :giggle:
 
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most teenage boys if you ask them what they intrested in and it secret(believe me no secret) then hunny i think thats your answer,dont ask and best you dont even imagine...one of them scenes you take through life and wish you did not
 
Grummer said:
better yet, take off your tops, that will grab his attention :giggle:
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Now...Grummer!...

Perhaps just walk over and say or finger-spell "Hi"...My name is....and what's up?...:giggle:..(hopefully he doesn't get the wrong idea)...but it seems that phrase "what's up"? is pretty common with kids these days....More than likely he'll reply..."Nothing!"....which most all teens reply...(I've got 3 boys so I know).......That's the ice-breaker I'm guessing...what follows is up in the air....all depends on how nervous both of you are....

So...if he says nothing...(perhaps too shy)...just wink ur eye..and give him ur phone number....and say "Call me...Maybe?"....
 
Reminder to all posters: They're in middle school.
 
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uh oh, sorry...sorry sorry, i missed the bit about 'middle school", i feel terrible, well
what can i say?..hmmm

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say 'how its going?' what you think of this school, are you in sports or drama?
say do you know finger spell or say Hi (RR's suggestion above) and finger spell your name... maybe say, "you're not famous yet, i wanna know you better than that, what do you dig?"

dig means 'like, or interested in'

he's just as nervous as you are be cool, be relaxed, and smile, deaf people tend to be senistive to smiles

and dont shout, dont get right in his face, but dont stand far back or he'd think you scared of his germs...

good luck
 
Grummer said:
uh oh, sorry...sorry sorry, i missed the bit about 'middle school", i feel terrible, well
what can i say?..hmmm

:Oops:

say 'how its going?' what you think of this school, are you in sports or drama?
say do you know finger spell or say Hi (RR's suggestion above) and finger spell your name... maybe say, "you're not famous yet, i wanna know you better than that, what do you dig?"

dig means 'like, or interested in'

he's just as nervous as you are be cool, be relaxed, and smile, deaf people tend to be senistive to smiles

and dont shout, dont get right in his face, but dont stand far back or he'd think you scared of his germs...

good luck
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:giggle:....Ohhhh..middle-schooler....remembering my own "first crush"....
 
mine wasnt so good...well the first one was just before 'middle school' i was 10 , this girl Joanne Sherman, she was a real flirt in the class, i got lucky went hiding in the wardrobe with her one day after school at her place lol, guess i was dumb - i should have kissed her. lol
 
Mine was "Johnny" I believe...he had red hair....:giggle:...and all my family were red-headed but not me (blonde)....I was around 11 or so...he was athletic and I sort of followed him all around, bugging him to death....sent him little love letters and all that...:giggle:...but he was more interested in sports than girls at the time.
 
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