I was married for 7 years ( 3yrs dating so 10yrs total). Before I got married I was 18, I lived with my parents then moved in with my ex-husband, I wasn't used to being alone. Because of that I REALLYY struggled with the idea of being single in the beginning. But now I have adjusted and very much enjoy being single, plus less dishes or socks to wash. 
Not to mention between working, school and a kiddo, I have no time for a man. lol I did hear a 2:1 rule that said 2yrs of marriage to 1yr of recovery, that would make me have 5yrs of recovery. I think I would like to get married again in the future but I have priorities about it now. I know my limits of expectations and also know I want to finish school and be settled in my dream job first. 
