I left a 20 year marriage a few years ago. Have a wonderful b/f for almost 5 years now.....but I don't want to live together, get married or even have sleepovers very often. Luckily, this suits him fine too. Many people think we are not committed, but this is not true. We just are not doing it like the book says you should ya know, we are figuring out what works for us. I truly enjoy my independence, but many men would frown upon it.
