I didn't know about the fraternities that are anti-gay. That is new on me. I am reminded of a very good friend who is very pretty/feminine and recently was divorced after about 20+ years. I suspect she might be back with her former lesbian lover.
Those guys I spoke of weren't in college. The first one quitted college and the other one never went to a college. From what I observed those guys, I really wonder if that is true of any guys. I just want to protect myself. That is all. Vampy, you are right... men should know what signs that tell them that a certain woman would became lesbian. I can't really help you out here.
I remember one woman who was very athletic and never got involved with another woman until after she was accused of being a lesbian. I really don't know what really goes on in her head.
