how can i let a guy know that i like him?

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how can i let him know that i like him alot.... since im curious abt guys' liking grils' way to letting them know that they likes guys or whatever like that hehe thanks
 
Hi Fei Ku,

A smile that is geninue and connects with both of you is awesome also something you cook for him to eat will make it clear you like him depending on the situation , the social setting and what is appropriate and naturally happens. You can tell him through your body language and your soul that you like him, please make sure this is very clear and not very vague or mixed signals. Sometimes something natural does send mixed signals.

If you watch over the course of a time what makes a guy happy and what makes him go cold and does not want anything to do with a woman. You will be surprised and it can be a real eye opener.

The conventional wisdom is that all the guys are the same is not true. Some will respond to you appropriately , some will respond in a strange way etc. The important thing to remember is that when a guy likes you he will try to make it clear to you , and he may fumble with the words or something , just know he likes you. Some guys have good conversation skills and some guys don't have good conversation skills and both of them still like you . I hope this helps you ? :) :thumb:
 
Heath said:
Hi Fei Ku,

A smile that is geninue and connects with both of you is awesome also something you cook for him to eat will make it clear you like him depending on the situation , the social setting and what is appropriate and naturally happens. You can tell him through your body language and your soul that you like him, please make sure this is very clear and not very vague or mixed signals. Sometimes something natural does send mixed signals.

If you watch over the course of a time what makes a guy happy and what makes him go cold and does not want anything to do with a woman. You will be surprised and it can be a real eye opener.

The conventional wisdom is that all the guys are the same is not true. Some will respond to you appropriately , some will respond in a strange way etc. The important thing to remember is that when a guy likes you he will try to make it clear to you , and he may fumble with the words or something , just know he likes you. Some guys have good conversation skills and some guys don't have good conversation skills and both of them still like you . I hope this helps you ? :) :thumb:
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aww thanks yea it does help me pretty goody and it make me think of what i shud do and will watch his act and convo and everything hehe thanks for ur help and advice hehe :thumb:
 
fei ku said:
aww thanks yea it does help me pretty goody and it make me think of what i shud do and will watch his act and convo and everything hehe thanks for ur help and advice hehe :thumb:
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You are welcome and one more thing... please do not hang onto his words and interprete them like it is a drama lesson or something like that because in real life, A guy may have wanted to say something and it did not come out the way he wanted to say something so his actions will be a more reliable means of knowing what is going on. You understand what I am saying? If you are not sure, please ask and the another thing is you should not be afraid to tell him you like him.

Do not use your friends to tell him that you like him because then he will be un-sure of himself.

It is better to tell him you like him yourself and this also prevents another girls from trying to steal him away from you and it saves maybe weeks , months or even in some cases years of mis-communication and missed chances etc.
 
If he is like me I don't get signals so be blunt and tell him and ask him out
 
Soonersseth said:
If he is like me I don't get signals so be blunt and tell him and ask him out
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I go with soonersseth here alot of guys don't get the little signals us girls leave so be blunt say you know there's somthing i wanna tell you i really like you and i was wondering if you want to go out sometime? No mixed confussion there
 
I agree , even sometimes I kick myself for not picking up the signals that women leave.... Remember guy's brainwaves are different than that of a woman's.
 
I agree. We men can be totally oblivious. I always hang out with a good friend of mine, and according to her, "You get hit on so much, Josh Hartnett would be envious. I have absolutely no idea why you miss it all the time!" (I accuse her of blatant flattery. ;))

Our average conversation goes like this:

Her: "That girl you just spoke to was SOOOO hitting on you."
Me: "Wha?"
Her: "It was obvious. Did you see her body language?"
Me: "Wha? She just gave me her number. That's all."
Her: "OOOOOH. You bad, bad boy."
Me: "Wha?!?!? LOL"
Her: "Men! You all are SO clueless!"
 
for hearing alot words to speak but deaf silence read their mind :dunno: :D

i remmy when i have crushed on my husband, i kissed him on his cheek in public who cares we re watched, i wanted him to know i liked him :lol:
 
:lol: @ Endymion!


If you really like this guy, then tell him because the more you wait, you might end up losing him by someone who got him first before you did...

If he's not intersting, then at least you know you made your first move ;)
 
agree above, angel's post :wiggle:

wondering, what if both have crushed on each other, they're shy to step telling one another :lol:
 
^Angel^ said:
:lol: @ Endymion!


If you really like this guy, then tell him because the more you wait, you might end up losing him by someone who got him first before you did...

If he's not intersting, then at least you know you made your first move ;)
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I also agree with ^Angel^
 
Pomeranian said:
I agree with Angel. MAKE YOUR MOVE WILL YA!!! :rofl:
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:lol: @ Pomeranian. Yea make your move before it is too late but take it slow though. Good luck :)
 
yeah or make a move saying want to hang out sometimes? then u can make your move that way ;) if he's deaf then call him up if he's hearing then ask him for his email address.. whatever floats your boat ;)
 
i let someone know that i really like him

and we keep letting each other knows that we like each other
 
Fei Ku,

Have you told him how you felt directly yet...or what's happening right now between u and him? I'm curious! :)
 
Peachy Lady said:
Fei Ku,

Have you told him how you felt directly yet...or what's happening right now between u and him? I'm curious! :)
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well i did told him the truth *blush* soo i dunno how he felt lol but still chat with each other :D
 
fei ku said:
how can i let him know that i like him alot.... since im curious abt guys' liking grils' way to letting them know that they likes guys or whatever like that hehe thanks
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I'm a guy in love with a girl.. I'm so shy..I don't know how to express my madly love to her.. I always think of her and WANT TO BREAK MY SHELL. How to do it ? I'm about to die of my love.. PLEASE HELP ME TOO!!! :gpost:
 

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