All I got to say to you , TrippLA that God will bless your grandmother and God will bless that minister.
God is not gonna bless your mother for leading you asthray neither is God gonna bless you for being a homosexual. That police officer should have obeyed God and refused to arrest your grandmother and your minister.
That policeman should have arrested your mother for child abuse. What if your mother's teaching you homosexual behavior when you were under 18 and you caught HIV / AIDS then your mother should have been locked up for child abuse by causing your own slow death through homosexual HIV / AIDS behavior and your mother should have been protecting you from evil sodomic behavior.
Your grandmother and the minister did the right thing. You should have been in school and being able to be an innocent care-free boy and growing up normally under your family's protection and God's Guidance to become the strong fine young man God intended you to be and marry a beautiful woman to be your wife and start a family after having a very good job, education and training from college or a certified vocotional training center.
