Hi! Until she was 3, we were lucky to find an ASL-based daycare open during school hours that was affiliated with the school for the deaf my daughter now attends. But, during that time we did need to find some daycare during summers and on Fridays, after school, etc at times: we tried and really loved Bright Horizons. They didn't hesitate at all to integrate our deaf child into their program, and she would often be dropped off after napping on the bus, with her new CI askew or packed away in a backpack. The staff at the center took it on themselves to learn all about CIs and how to turn them on or off, set the appropriate programs, place them properly on and change batteries, and they were extremely diligent about making sure they were on and working, ensuring she wasnt just nodding or following others while the CI hung somewhere on her pigtail, not even on.
In addition, because Li was primarily an ASL user, especially in her first year with her CI, they brought in an instructor and held several staff classes on basic sign. Perhaps this was supported by the type of program Reba mentioned. Li began coaching other kids on how to sign, and the staff encouraged this, asking her to teach a word or two at lunch every day, which the children were then delighted to use. Another ASL-using classmate began attending the center as well after finding that they were so willing and eager to accommodate special communication needs.
Not only did (does) Li love going there, we found that this immersion into an environment of hearing/speaking children resulted in a leap in spoken language--she would come home chattering away non-stop. This expeience encouraged us to enroll Li in all of the activities she has asked for regardless of whether or not there was any awareness of deaf-related accommodations in place. So all in all, an unfortunate necessity that we had really worried about -- placing our ASL-using child in an alien environment, turned out to be a wonderful experience for her.