Asl
I have been fluent in ASL since 2000.
I am hard-of-hearing and have the same problem meeting someone who is deaf, can sign or both.
One thing I do is try to sign songs on the radio.
It is not as easy as it sounds because more often than not you have to use synonyms or change the song around to sign the "same" thing.
I live in St. Louis now if you are close I would love to hang out!
I hope this is helpful!
Michelle