Godsgirl101 said:
I am a hearing girl who is trying to learn asl. Its my dream to teach deaf kids someday. My question is: Is the langage very hard to learn?
Well... yes and no. I can certainly say it's easy to forget if you don't make a point of using it! (This is the voice of sad experience.)
Aside from languages designed to be easy, like Esperanto, "easy" effectively means "like a language I already know." Signed languages are very different in some ways from spoken languages, because you aren't confined to a linear stream of symbols. English has large classes of words that mean almost the same thing; we use them to communicate shades of meaning. ASL has other ways to do that.
Just as spoken languages have homonyms and words that sound almost the same, ASL has signs that are identical (is that a 9 or an F? it depends on context, but what if you're signing numbers in base 16, which uses both 9 and F?) and similar (as a woman found out who signed "he's my second hamburger" rather than "he's my second husband"). It takes practice to remember signs and keep them straight. (I managed to come off as an Oedipus wannabe once by confusing "woman" and "mother"...sigh. At least my teacher was amused.)
It's important to try to think in terms of the language you're trying to learn, be it spoken, signed, or even a programming language.
Another thing that makes ASL harder to learn is that it has no written form. (Linguists have designed ways to notate signing, but they're not used generally; a woman has come up with a system called Signwriting, but I don't know whether it's widely used.) If you are learning Spanish or French or most other spoken languages, there are huge bodies of grammatical utterances that are written down that you can study at your leisure, any time of day or night. In doing so, you are using a "divide and conquer" strategy--you can take as long as you want to ponder a sentence and look up words you don't understand, and you have it divided up into words for you, so you can concentrate on grammar. You don't have that luxury with ASL.