Let's see... I've been to South Korea (Exchange student for a year), Japan, Hawaii (wait, I don't think that counts?), Canada, and Mexico. I am planning on going to Australia, England, and perhaps a tour of some EU countries. I doubt your left overs are really that bad. My Dad grew up in the great depression so he eats anything. He absolutely refuses to let food go to waste. He often put out left overs and that was that... no discussion.
I do not have any kids, so I will live vicariously through any stories you wish to share here (and I hope you do share). I grew up in Northern Michigan so I know what you mean about fall - absolutely awesome! Now I am in Maryland in the D.C. area.
I grew up HOH and was mainstreamed most of my life (I now have a CI). I (and many others here) do understand what your HOH son is going through. If you have any questions or he has any questions, let us know!