Hearing friend will like you if you talk about academic and career life.
I remember my mom told me hearing girl will like me if I talk about academic and career life instead of personal and relationship.
She had experienced at yale university same as my second cousin who graduated at yale, too.
And if you finish college, get better career and will find someone happily.
My second cousin explained to me what I should understand about mutual topics if I plan talk to girls like academics and career lot than other boring topic ever not need talk about personal and relationship when you are close friend with someone, that why it leads to not work out relationship with someone.
He is engaged to his girlfriend from his high school in new jersey.
He is filipino and his fiancee is white, born in new jersey but his family mirgated from the philippines when my moms cousin side but not at same province.
I think he wants to stay home close to his family and feel comfortable but already experience his social with people at yale which seems cold and many people talk differently from deaf people at yale like they talk about modern arts and drama unlike my second cousin like talk about mathematics and physics. He found that yale do not give friendly for asian or filipino people, most rich people around him but he enjoyed at his school to get degree. Often, he seems talk about filipino and culture when people feel comfortable with them ever back in hometown, celebrate and attend festival. It is not easy for his survive at yale where people do not usually to social with cultures. Now, he worked as math teacher and will join his in law family next year. He worked hard to earn money for himself and family.
He told me if I am deaf, try think about myself as being person who could talk to someone about academics and career life to keep friends become interested ever maybe common groups, same as will meet someone I need to talk about academics and career life.
Do not need talk about deaf culture or gallaudet, I should move on. Many people always think it will be liked when met at gallaudet, it never worked out.
Think about future where you will live and how you will survive yourself without any trouble.
If I married to deaf girl but sometime interesting conflict like not care about hearing world.
but find someone who is deaf and cared about hearing world like career life, it is lucky. Like one girl is on ad from mit and she do not worry about anything, seem fine, not obssesed about deaf people like mine see deaf friends at gallaudet but they had own life.
I remember my mom told me hearing girl will like me if I talk about academic and career life instead of personal and relationship.
She had experienced at yale university same as my second cousin who graduated at yale, too.
And if you finish college, get better career and will find someone happily.
My second cousin explained to me what I should understand about mutual topics if I plan talk to girls like academics and career lot than other boring topic ever not need talk about personal and relationship when you are close friend with someone, that why it leads to not work out relationship with someone.
He is engaged to his girlfriend from his high school in new jersey.
He is filipino and his fiancee is white, born in new jersey but his family mirgated from the philippines when my moms cousin side but not at same province.
I think he wants to stay home close to his family and feel comfortable but already experience his social with people at yale which seems cold and many people talk differently from deaf people at yale like they talk about modern arts and drama unlike my second cousin like talk about mathematics and physics. He found that yale do not give friendly for asian or filipino people, most rich people around him but he enjoyed at his school to get degree. Often, he seems talk about filipino and culture when people feel comfortable with them ever back in hometown, celebrate and attend festival. It is not easy for his survive at yale where people do not usually to social with cultures. Now, he worked as math teacher and will join his in law family next year. He worked hard to earn money for himself and family.
He told me if I am deaf, try think about myself as being person who could talk to someone about academics and career life to keep friends become interested ever maybe common groups, same as will meet someone I need to talk about academics and career life.
Do not need talk about deaf culture or gallaudet, I should move on. Many people always think it will be liked when met at gallaudet, it never worked out.
Think about future where you will live and how you will survive yourself without any trouble.
If I married to deaf girl but sometime interesting conflict like not care about hearing world.
but find someone who is deaf and cared about hearing world like career life, it is lucky. Like one girl is on ad from mit and she do not worry about anything, seem fine, not obssesed about deaf people like mine see deaf friends at gallaudet but they had own life.
