I am not sure how to saying in this thread. Lately, I have been crush with a guy who is very gentleman and brilliant. We have been really enjoying ourselves company like chat on video phone and text message on the pagers. We live in long distance which is not good for us. The best bet for me to meet him in one day and to get to know him. This way- I can get everything from him. However, I realized what I have done improperly saying those things to him lately. I apology him for my misbehavior, assume I have not been pick on other guys for many months since my husband passed away. Hopefully, he will accept my apology for my inappropriate tease and conversant with him.
Oh boy, what is coincidence? Wow, it is interesting to understand the whole thing, what he is a man and have a good insight about the things man says. I assumed, I need to healed 100% completely first as I need to stop feeling sorry for myself. My wound began to be open for the new chapter of my life as new relationship friend with him. He shows how much he is humble and good listener to give me strength. I read the Time magazine this week about the chemistry in the romantic and relationship like love versus friend. It must be very fascination to read that magazine. I will read it during this weekend; it will help me to understand better.
However, I really like that guy very much; long distance relationship is a bad idea. If the two persons are in love, we can share anything erotically and romantically. It is not just a women who need an initiate as affectionate and intimacy. Some men or women don’t like in the early stage of relationship due to afraid hurtful each other. There are some reasons like not ready and fearful to love again.
It is okay for you to express what you think and your feelings to the guy, just let him/ her know what it means to you. I guess, I do not have to terminate a friendship with him because of what I have do inappropriate behavior to him. He may not realize it and needs to be told or remain by me that am not appropriate for him to say like that and “tease you”. I am trying very hard to be courteous lady. To be honest, we may have different philosophy or view of point. It is normal for anyone else. “Love, Honor and Negotiate”
Oh boy, what is coincidence? Wow, it is interesting to understand the whole thing, what he is a man and have a good insight about the things man says. I assumed, I need to healed 100% completely first as I need to stop feeling sorry for myself. My wound began to be open for the new chapter of my life as new relationship friend with him. He shows how much he is humble and good listener to give me strength. I read the Time magazine this week about the chemistry in the romantic and relationship like love versus friend. It must be very fascination to read that magazine. I will read it during this weekend; it will help me to understand better.
However, I really like that guy very much; long distance relationship is a bad idea. If the two persons are in love, we can share anything erotically and romantically. It is not just a women who need an initiate as affectionate and intimacy. Some men or women don’t like in the early stage of relationship due to afraid hurtful each other. There are some reasons like not ready and fearful to love again.
It is okay for you to express what you think and your feelings to the guy, just let him/ her know what it means to you. I guess, I do not have to terminate a friendship with him because of what I have do inappropriate behavior to him. He may not realize it and needs to be told or remain by me that am not appropriate for him to say like that and “tease you”. I am trying very hard to be courteous lady. To be honest, we may have different philosophy or view of point. It is normal for anyone else. “Love, Honor and Negotiate”
