I agree with the above poster.
I think everyone will go through this type of thing at least once during their lifetime.
It's all about what we learn from it and how will we react to it.
One of mine would be...not go to public school sooner. My family knew that deaf school is not suit for me before I realize it, but I let my fear control me back then.
But I believe that everything happen for a reason whether we regret it or not.