Gay Deaf relationships

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I know it is hard enough to find a relationship in our family. How difficult is it to find another Deaf person who is gay, that you want to be with and visa versa? Have you dated mostly hearing or is it a mix? Which would you perfer if any?
 
i believe it's based of my experience it's hard for to love somebody who is a showing the love itself. I would choose my own trust and the real love i know it's become harder to find somebody who believe in love and faith.

I already found mine, that person I had trusted and faith with her, so I will alway love her.
 
My few deaf gays are broken up by hearing gays! So after that They re date with deaf gay so its so better much! .. That what they told me.
 
If you were here at NTID, you would find a deaf GLBT at every corner.
 
I never really had difficulties finding people who were GLBT. My current boyfriend is hearing and we have been together for almost three years. I don't think that deaf or hearing has anything to do with it, just make sure the communication is very clear and everyone is on the same level.
 
You will find a better chance if you re living in Big city such as like NY, Chicago, Wash Dc. etc..

Small towns have too many closeted people.
 
Well, would be nice to have deaf bachlaor *sp* for gays/lesbian/straight than hunting forever until find the soulmate!
 
Don't despair, Spacey. It'll happen for you eventually! :)

Of course, have you ever heard of the expression "A watched pot never boils"? My experience has been that when I've really wanted a boyfriend, I always had trouble finding "the one"... but when I WASN'T looking (and was already "taken"), men were coming out of the woodwork, it seemed!

Love is strange.
 
InTheGenes said:
Don't despair, Spacey. It'll happen for you eventually! :)

Of course, have you ever heard of the expression "A watched pot never boils"? My experience has been that when I've really wanted a boyfriend, I always had trouble finding "the one"... but when I WASN'T looking (and was already "taken"), men were coming out of the woodwork, it seemed!

Love is strange.
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Yeah i love when i was dating some one and guys would say i am this or i am that.... I would say, um and where were you when i was single? Then when you are single, where are they at???
 
Heya all

I'm bi, but am into guys more.

FYI, it's extremely difficult finding a guy that best suits your needs and wants. I'm *very* picky nowadays after being fucked over too many times (long story). It'd be a HELLA nicer if I'd find a guy that is close to my age, is cute (hot guys are a PLUS), smart, single/available and looking, and deaf/hard-of-hearing.

However, finding those types of guys I described is so difficult that I gave up on the deaf part and went for hearing guys (I can talk with my voice, anyway). If, and I emphasize, *IF* I happen to find a guy who's single, cute, age-approximate, smart, and deaf, I'd just drop the hearing guys like dead bugs.

I'm a {Network Administration with IT appended} major so I know a lot about computers/servers, and I also know the English language so well that I can call English my first language simply because I grew up orally. It'd be fanstastic if there is at least ONE decent guy around that knows English and computers.

I realize that my post does sound extremely picky indeed, but there are obvious reasons behind it.
 
SnAzZyStyLe2002 said:
Heya all

I'm bi, but am into guys more.

FYI, it's extremely difficult finding a guy that best suits your needs and wants. I'm *very* picky nowadays after being fucked over too many times (long story). It'd be a HELLA nicer if I'd find a guy that is close to my age, is cute (hot guys are a PLUS), smart, single/available and looking, and deaf/hard-of-hearing.

However, finding those types of guys I described is so difficult that I gave up on the deaf part and went for hearing guys (I can talk with my voice, anyway). If, and I emphasize, *IF* I happen to find a guy who's single, cute, age-approximate, smart, and deaf, I'd just drop the hearing guys like dead bugs.

I'm a {Network Administration with IT appended} major so I know a lot about computers/servers, and I also know the English language so well that I can call English my first language simply because I grew up orally. It'd be fanstastic if there is at least ONE decent guy around that knows English and computers.

I realize that my post does sound extremely picky indeed, but there are obvious reasons behind it.
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What if the guy meets ALL your needs but is overweight and ugly? Still no go for u?
 
SnAzZyStyLe2002 said:
Ahem, I think you know the answer to that already.

(For those who have poor critical thinking skills, the answer is hell no.)
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:hmm: Ok good luck with your pursuit for that perfect man! :)
 
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