Just a quick add on and off to work.
The biggest injustice the original poster can do to herself is to lump ALL together.
The hearing are not all as assumed by the poster and
The deaf are not all as assumed by the poster.
People are idiots or saints depending upon how they chose to be and act.
From a hearie - I can't stand nasty people, hearing or deaf, and distance myself from those who are negative.
There is far too much that needs to be accomplished in our world and culture to get stuck on ridiculous and ill-behaved people.
Just one ASLGAL's opinion 
Have a great day ALL !!
