maybe I need to get on deaf singles chat, lol.
but on a more serious note, I do want to take my time and not worry about it.
I think men like to see a woman thats in control of her life actually does have a life outside work and children so they know she's an interesting woman.
Not a woman that works all the time and still lives at home with her parents after a nasty divorce.
I just need to get from point A to B to where men will start to notice me and they will be like - hey you are an interesting woman. Can we go out for a cup of coffee sometime? 
