Shel is right, I live in a very rural area and I only know of one other deaf/hoh here but she actually lives in a town 15 mins from here. I dont get to see her much, shes the one I mentioned earlier that is married to the cop that treats her like a queen.
As for deaf/hoh guys, I dont know any around here. I dont care what the guy's hearing status is as long as I find one that is respectful and tolerant of my hoh and will treat me and my DD like queens.