My ex wasnt tolerate of my hearing loss but he wasnt bad as compared to some of my deaf friends' hubbies. They have NO clue about deafness and put their wives down for not hearing well enough and wont be willing to learn sign. I cant get involved but there are times I just want to pour ice cold water on their privates and yell "Wake up STUPID!"
Good luck finding a man who has understanding and tolerance. I was lucky to find that in my current husband and it helped that we were good friends for 3 years before we started dating and that he learned sign language throughout our friendship. When I first met him, he knew zip signs. Now, he can communicate easily with most deaf people.
Important, take your time. 
