The whole IEP process with my daughter was a living joke. I was never notified in advance. Only got 1-2 days notice. I was not permitted to have anyone with me at all. They did not take into account all the services and help she needed. She was listed with 32 developmental disabilities and disorders by a child psychologist, and other agencies when we were told to try and get her SSDI. She got the SSDI, but in school, she only got speech therapy for 3 years and no other services. She needed remedial help as well as occupational therapy but did not get it. She qualified for the LD classes, but they refused to do it. That's why I said to H3LL with the public school system and withdrew her and homeschooled.
I mean, Part of my taxes go towards the school district and I am told by 2 different districts that my daughter is unteachable and they did not abide by the IEP and it's processes. The whole US Department of Education is a crappy joke in my opinion based on what I had to go through.