Ocean- thank you for sharing your experiences. It's such a travesty that more wasn't done by the school to protect you from the ignorant a-holes of the world.
One thing I can say, is that since you graduated much has changed in terms of the laws supporting students with different needs. I think for that we can be grateful, but it's still up to the parents to stand firm about what supports and services their child needs.
There is a national bulky task force that my sons school is participating in. I'll see if I can find a link and post it later. Feeling safe and accepted at school is of the utmost importance, and we need to educate these kids at a younger age so they can be tolerant and accepting of all individuals.
I really think that's the key- giving them the information at a young age, and drilling it into them.
I'm glad that in spite of your less than desirable educational experience, you grew into a strong, intelligent woman. I think those experiences allow us to appreciate the truly good people in our lives, and forget the rest of them.