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Eve, I want answer your thread where you created to ask for our opinions. Therefore your thread is lock. T
I prefer to create my thread with title "Exchange of Views/Discussion" because the way of this word is maturity. I hope you don't mind.
http://www.alldeaf.com/showthread.php?t=20509
Here is answer on my opinion.
Well, all topics in the forum are nevertheless in first line is for discussion, not start or looking for an argument. Is it necessary to starts or looking for an arguement?
Example about those issues:
Abortion
Religions
Parent
Children
Homosexuals
CI
Judgment
And others
I would respect creator’s note of attention because it’s his/her thread, they create to ask anyone to discuss in neat way with no bash/insult etc.
I would leave creator’s thread alone if I see what I don’t like.
When the creators starts a controversial topic then they should get anyone’s attention to put their note to ask anyone to share discuss agree to disagree with no bash/insult but respectful in first place.
Yes, I know that Admin. ruled his forum but I still would advise the creators to note to get anyone’s attention to not bashing, insult, judge etc to get them to respect creator’s thread because the creators want his/her thread to be clean and neat which I always did that when I create my threads.
See the example of Eve's note of attention:
What do you think?
I’m afraid yes; I see the problem is some of people who have difficult to respect people’s agree/disagree discussion posts and creator’s attention note, too. I'm agree that the people who have difficult emotional problem who can't handle exchange of views/discussions with agree/disagree well. All what they do is built more immature posts to mess to make their arguements on creator’s thread with disrespectful and judgment. The creator repeats to ask them to respect their thread or leave their thread; unfortunately they don’t want to see it so the creator sees the force to report Admin. and moderators. Yes, of course it's not just creator but members, too who pressed bad report, too.
WRONG!
See an exactly what Cheri said in her post that there is no second opinion as what you claimed.
I have no problem to handle hot debates without running Admin./moderators because I CAN deal with them myself. but the problem is judgment/disrespectful to mess creator’s good thread with their immature posts which is not acceptance.
Interesting, look yourself what you made your posts at Religions threads here.
Anyway, you has a right point:
That’s exactly what I avoid most of threads and also drop few lines what I stand with IMO but it’s different story when there are creators who want their good threads to be neat and clean.
Yes, that’s right. I see no problem because it’s your decision what you pick whatever you like but the problem is how the lurkers feels when they saw your public posts at other forum.
Example: One person created her/his thread here to ask for opinion. You saw what you don’t like and then answered his/her thread and then run to other forum to get their opinions.
Look at me, I did not run to other forums to get their opinions like what I just create a new thread HERE to ASK Eve for her opinion directly because Eve’s lock thread is HERE, not running to other forum to get others’s opinions. This is maturity way to ask anyone directly.
Exactly!
I prefer to create my thread with title "Exchange of Views/Discussion" because the way of this word is maturity. I hope you don't mind.
http://www.alldeaf.com/showthread.php?t=20509
Eve:
What is your opinion on this issue?
Here is answer on my opinion.
Eve:
Don't ya just hate it when someone starts a controversial topic, knowing full well that a heated debate is likely to ensue?
Oceanbreeze:
If you can't handle the responses your going to get in a controversial topic, don't start the controversial topic in the first place!
Well, all topics in the forum are nevertheless in first line is for discussion, not start or looking for an argument. Is it necessary to starts or looking for an arguement?
Example about those issues:
Abortion
Religions
Parent
Children
Homosexuals
CI
Judgment
And others
I would respect creator’s note of attention because it’s his/her thread, they create to ask anyone to discuss in neat way with no bash/insult etc.
I would leave creator’s thread alone if I see what I don’t like.
When the creators starts a controversial topic then they should get anyone’s attention to put their note to ask anyone to share discuss agree to disagree with no bash/insult but respectful in first place.
Yes, I know that Admin. ruled his forum but I still would advise the creators to note to get anyone’s attention to not bashing, insult, judge etc to get them to respect creator’s thread because the creators want his/her thread to be clean and neat which I always did that when I create my threads.
See the example of Eve's note of attention:
Eve:
What is your opinion on this issue?
What do you think?
Eve’s
only to throw a temper tantrum when others show a difference of opinion? Why is it that these people then aren't mature enough to handle the debate, but would rather go tattle to daddy (or in this case, mods), rather than handle the situation themselves, especially when they are guilty of the same behavior they are accusing others of?
I’m afraid yes; I see the problem is some of people who have difficult to respect people’s agree/disagree discussion posts and creator’s attention note, too. I'm agree that the people who have difficult emotional problem who can't handle exchange of views/discussions with agree/disagree well. All what they do is built more immature posts to mess to make their arguements on creator’s thread with disrespectful and judgment. The creator repeats to ask them to respect their thread or leave their thread; unfortunately they don’t want to see it so the creator sees the force to report Admin. and moderators. Yes, of course it's not just creator but members, too who pressed bad report, too.
Eve:
Furthermore, when said individual doesn't get the response they want from one mod, they look to the other mod to override the first mods decision. This would be a very DEFIANT action, and if one of my children went to Daddy to override Mommy's decision, it would probably end in a spanking for defiance.
Oceanbreeze:
Well, it seems that the action of one of the mods wasn't good enough for some people, so they brought in "a second opinion". Sounds like the right hand doesn't know what the left hand is doing. Figures.
WRONG!
See an exactly what Cheri said in her post that there is no second opinion as what you claimed.
Cheri:
When members pressed a bad report, All the moderators included Alex get the report. It has nothing to do with bringing in a second opinion or how it wasn't good enough. Before amusing like you always do, Get your fact straight or you'll make a fool out of yourself.
Oceanbreeze:
I've said this to ad nauseum. Some people here need to grow a thick skin, and deal with the myriad of comments that are coming from the variety of people on this forum. My siggy says it all... "If you can't stand the heat, then, get out of the damn kitchen!", which basically means this....
I have no problem to handle hot debates without running Admin./moderators because I CAN deal with them myself. but the problem is judgment/disrespectful to mess creator’s good thread with their immature posts which is not acceptance.
CyberRed:
LMAO I think that was funny!
Yeah, I know what you mean.
I can see some people are like that -- the only way I can do is just ignorin' them right after I done my pieces what the issue was all about, just to drop some lines what I believe IMO. If, I see someone whines about what an issue is all about or another, I wouldn't post to keep goin' over and over. It's just wastin' my time, ya know ? I will just move on to other thread to read.
I do admit that my eyes picked up pretty good by how they respond - can tell who they are sidin' on. I am losin' interested in that part... tryin' to avoid as much as I can from certain members.
Interesting, look yourself what you made your posts at Religions threads here.
Anyway, you has a right point:
the only way I can do is just ignorin' them right after I done my pieces what the issue was all about, just to drop some lines what I believe IMO.
If, I see someone whines about what an issue is all about or another, I wouldn't post to keep goin' over and over. It's just wastin' my time, ya know ? I will just move on to other thread to read
That’s exactly what I avoid most of threads and also drop few lines what I stand with IMO but it’s different story when there are creators who want their good threads to be neat and clean.
I have the rights to ask DFers for their opinions. Why not ? It doesn't mean that I complaint. I also could go to another forum where there is a religion and ask as well. I am sure they will agree with me...of course, not this site !
Yes, that’s right. I see no problem because it’s your decision what you pick whatever you like but the problem is how the lurkers feels when they saw your public posts at other forum.
Example: One person created her/his thread here to ask for opinion. You saw what you don’t like and then answered his/her thread and then run to other forum to get their opinions.
Look at me, I did not run to other forums to get their opinions like what I just create a new thread HERE to ASK Eve for her opinion directly because Eve’s lock thread is HERE, not running to other forum to get others’s opinions. This is maturity way to ask anyone directly.
Oceanbreeze:
I stand up for myself and what I believe in!
Exactly!