You are welcome. I am sorry to hear about your mom. Screw him and you can do better without him. Try to move on and do better with your life. He can go to hell! Later on he will have regrets, just watch. 
I know how it feel having mom need you as my mom need me to help her with chores and cooking foods as she have emphseyma. She have difficult breathing when its humid and etc. I dont mind helping out with things driving her to dr and errands. Not many would do this for their eldery relatives which is sad.. dont worry about ur hubby.. 