Do You Drink Too Much?

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Experts split drinking habits into four groups, relating the risk they pose to psychological and physical health. These are social, heavy, problematic, and dependent. So at what level are you drinking?

Social Drinking

Social, or “moderate,” drinking in the United States would be defined as no more than two drinks a day. So if you’re gulping down a couple of pints a day from Monday to Friday with work colleagues, having a couple of glasses of red at a dinner party on Saturday and taking two cold ones from the fridge for Sunday’s game, you’re pushing the boundaries, but wouldn’t be rushed for a stomach pumping session any time soon. This is where you want to be as the guy climbing the career ladder or mixing with friends; you’re sociable, can enjoy a drink but know when to stop.

Heavy Drinking

A heavy drinker is someone who regularly drinks above the safe limits defined in “social drinking.” Consuming 21 or more units a week (one unit being about half a pint of beer), or more than four units in one session is potentially harmful to health and, if done regularly, can lead to serious problems. Cirrhosis of the liver, damaged pancreas, sexual or heart problems are all linked to heavy alcohol consumption. But don’t just consider physical signs. When you find yourself deserted by your colleagues — again — as you dance the cha-cha-cha on the pool table, things may have reached a new level. If relationships, work productivity or home life show some signs of suffering due to drinking habits, you should cut down your consumption.

Problem Drinking

A “problem” drinker will be clunking a six-pack onto the counter on a daily basis — despite alcohol-related health, work or social problems. While not being dependent on alcohol so as to experience withdrawal symptoms, the drinking is a social and daily habit. Do you feel guilty about drinking? Do you often skip work after a night out? These are more subtle signs than cirrhosis of the liver (which is likely to be evident at this point), but are all signs that you drink too much.

Alcohol Dependence

This is the muddy puddle at the bottom of the slippery slope. Where you were once the life and soul of the party, the young talent with an eye on the company director’s chair and the example of work/life balance, you now find yourself giving up on social and occupational commitments, drinking more to achieve any effect and experiencing withdrawal symptoms should you find yourself too broke to buy the booze. Despite alcohol being the origin of your current problems, it is the solution to your woes, the solace you seek and the craving that gnaws at your better judgment. Alcoholics will often deny excessive drinking, so counting up your weekly unit intake may not be the best way to become self-aware. But have you experienced some of the above life changes?

Look at Your Drinking in Perspective

It’s true that work relationships often benefit from a pint after office hours. Unfortunately, though, there are many stories of the young professional who became the guy running topless over the taxi, who became the all-too-often empty chair at work, who eventually became the guy telling a bottle all about the great job he once had before the days when he had to munch on eight pills to treat his liver.

The important factor to keep in mind if you're worried that you drink too much is that there are always resources to help you manage your consumption, whatever your drinking level. If you feel you have a problem, you do. Your doctor will be able to direct you to local resources and support and will offer counsel as you cut down your consumption.
 
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I am definitely a social drinker...i can consume more alcohol than most ppl my size tho...I have a high tolerance
 
I can't drink!...When I used to (socially), just 1-2 beers would put me on the floor....and inasmuch as I loved White Russians, I could only drink a little of those.....I tolerated white wine better (less alcohol) I guess. So whenever I did go out clubbing, I ordered coke or sprite....so I wouldn't make an ass of myself!....Now, I haven't drank anything in over 10 years.
 
Interesting... I only drink if I attend to the party and someone who could watch my daughter then I will drink. I would say once in a while that's it. Same like, yesterday I finally drank at my parents' surprise reitrement party but my actually last drinking was like in around May 2007 with my sister at the Bar. Pretty much depend on where, with who, etc like that then I will drink or not.
 
I never drink alcoholic beverages.
 
I never drink alcoholic beverages.

How about on Lord's Day, does drinking his blood count? ;)



Me: I don't drink often at all, but only on social events as in to acknowledge or celebrate something. Never without purpose.
 
How about on Lord's Day, does drinking his blood count? ;)
When our church serves the Lord's Supper the beverage is plain grape juice that represents the Lord's blood.
 
When our church serves the Lord's Supper the beverage is plain grape juice that represents the Lord's blood.

That's interesting - the same is for us. However, we had used to use Manischewitz's Concord grape to symbolize the blood in the 90's. Sometime later on we made the decision to adapt to standard juice because it was skeptical to have some of the children partake of alcohol!
 
That's interesting - the same is for us. However, we had used to use Manischewitz's Concord grape to symbolize the blood in the 90's. Sometime later on we made the decision to adapt to standard juice because it was skeptical to have some of the children partake of alcohol!
We've always used non-fermented juice and non-leavened bread ("crackers"). :)
 
I only drink wine when I'm going to restaurant or invited at friend's place which happens once per month. And then it's only one glass ;) Too much alcohol makes me head dizzy and I don't like it!
 
I used to have an occasional drink. Now, I don't drink at all due to the meds I take.
 
I don't really drink alcohol frequently. Maybe two times in a year I might drink a Margharita at a Mexican restaurant.
 
I like to drink icy cold beers during hot summer days..maybe like 1 bottle a day and in the winter, a glass of wine once a week.

I drink more during social events.
 
I drink occasionally, mostly during special occasions such as New Year's Eve, etc and at some parties. Maybe about 1-2 times a year, maybe 3 times at the most.

My dad's wife is a hardcore alcoholic and I really, really, really hate her. I have seen her when she is drunk, and it is NOT pretty. Things gets really ugly all the time! I still have not forgotten the day she slammed the door on my little sister's fingers (she was only about 6 or 7 at the time, the poor little thing) and then turned around and began yelling at my little sister because she began crying and told her to stop being a crybaby (well, duh, slamming the door on one's fingers HURTS like HELL!). My whole family, including my aunt and uncle and my cousin, saw the whole thing. Even the whole campground saw it! We had gone camping. Because of what my dad's wife had done, my aunt and uncle and cousins packed up and left during the night...the next day I went to their camper to ask them to please take me out of there, and they were already gone. :( I ended up hiding in the public campground restrooms crying my eyes out and avoiding the old bitch as much as I could). Now I and my sister have no contact with the old bitch and want nothing to do with her. My dad has done nothing about her alcoholism, and just allowed her to continually do this to everybody. Now, everybody in my dad's WHOLE side of the family no longer drops by the house nor calls the house anymore, they avoid my parents as if they were radioactive. No one in the entire family likes the old bitch. She's real psychotic. Sometimes I wish the old bitch would just drop dead for the sake of our whole family. If she dropped dead, it would be a total godsend, and I'm agnostic! She's destroyed our family with her alcoholism, and dad has done not a damn thing about it, he just ignores the problem. Hell, even the old bitch's own two daughters has moved seven states away to get away from her and my own sister moved to Virginia! They won't let the old bitch anywhere near their children (my step-nieces and step-nephew)!

And that's not all she's done to us with her alcoholism...she's done so much shit to me and my sister...that we cannot forget.

Forget doing an intervention, it would be much better if the old bitch hag would just drop dead from a heart attack or something! Because I know if we tried to conduct an intervention, she would just turn into this big great monster and just eat us up and destroy everything in her path! Like in the movies! She's that psychotic! All of us are scared of her! In fact, I'm so scared of her that whenever I am in the city I don't tell my family, and I stay "under the radar" while staying with friends.

That's what alcoholism does to victims.
 
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