personally, I've read a lot of Jillio's posts, and From my point of view, she's a hearing person trying to help the deaf. She's trying to understand Deaf culture, but she knows that she can't understand what it's like to be deaf.
Really, from what i've seen, every person who could hear that has joined this forum is trying to understand how Deaf culture works, and why we are the way we are. They don't pretend to understand what it's like to live in our world, but they try to understand that we do not need to be changed; merely accepted for who we are.