Hmm.. My mom made me to play with a little girl who was same age as mine, she had severe celebral palsy (sp)? she had no friends, my mom felt sorry for her, even I'm deaf so I ended up playing with her for a yr or two then stopped because they had to move closer to hospital because the girl spent so much time in the hospital - too many surgeries and health reasons.
My mom made the neighbor kids' parents in our neighborhood to be aware there is a deaf child, she made the parents by encourgaging to explain to their children, have them come over your house or over their house, i had no problem playing with hearing kids because they were already aware of it. maybe you can have neighborhood meeting to discuss this issue?