Destiny?

[The*Empress]

Well, what if I want to be a housewife and a mother...
and not want a job?

Will I have destiny?

I don't care about career and all, big house and stuff.

 

[diehardbiker]

It depends, and I remmy you don't have real kids, I am not talking about that dogs or cat!
If you do volunteer work, and help other mothers, then MAYBE But, if your gonna sit in front of the monitor all day, then it would be darn boring!

Well, what if I want to be a housewife and a mother...
and not want a job?

Will I have destiny?

I don't care about career and all, big house and stuff.

 

[The*Empress]

Right, I don't have children.
But if God wants me to have children then he would bless me.
And if God wants me to get marry, then he would bless me.

I did help mothers...
When I was at California few weeks ago, during the funeral...
I was teaching a 2 years old her vocabalary and how to write...
I was saying blue, red, floor, picture, car, and alll
and that 2 years old girl was praising that she is happy to learn.

And I played with an one year old child...

And I was with the 3 children, they were loud in the funeral limo...
I took a nap, and woke up and they were asleep.
They copied off me sleep, haha

I like being a mom at that time. And I even be around kids
in Memphis, helping my aunt moves in her new house.

Children adored me.

 

[diehardbiker]

You can't be mom if you don't give birth to kids! Its totally different between mom that adopts somebody and the one that gave birth. I used to think I know what dad is all about. I found myself totally wrong right after I finally had my own son. I realize huge different once you have kid of your own.

One good example, you really can't read other's kids mind... but if you had your own kid, you CAN easily read their mind! I couldn't believe this once my son try something that I would not approve of. He was puzzled how I know in advance... That is because I think the same way he thinks.

At least, why don't you try to find a job and stick to it and see what it leads to? This could be a volunteer job, many employers would be very impressed if you had take a volunteerism, or work as dishwasher or cleaning toilet bowls then could lead you to better job. I have seen this happen, so why don't you give it a try?

Right, I don't have children.
But if God wants me to have children then he would bless me.
And if God wants me to get marry, then he would bless me.

I did help mothers...
When I was at California few weeks ago, during the funeral...
I was teaching a 2 years old her vocabalary and how to write...
I was saying blue, red, floor, picture, car, and alll
and that 2 years old girl was praising that she is happy to learn.

And I played with an one year old child...

And I was with the 3 children, they were loud in the funeral limo...
I took a nap, and woke up and they were asleep.
They copied off me sleep, haha

I like being a mom at that time. And I even be around kids
in Memphis, helping my aunt moves in her new house.

Children adored me.

 

[Liebling:-)))]

I´m mother of 2 children but I work 40 hours a week from Mon to Fri as full time.

 

[The*Empress]

You can't be mom if you don't give birth to kids! Its totally different between mom that adopts somebody and the one that gave birth. I used to think I know what dad is all about. I found myself totally wrong right after I finally had my own son. I realize huge different once you have kid of your own.

One good example, you really can't read other's kids mind... but if you had your own kid, you CAN easily read their mind! I couldn't believe this once my son try something that I would not approve of. He was puzzled how I know in advance... That is because I think the same way he thinks.

At least, why don't you try to find a job and stick to it and see what it leads to? This could be a volunteer job, many employers would be very impressed if you had take a volunteerism, or work as dishwasher or cleaning toilet bowls then could lead you to better job. I have seen this happen, so why don't you give it a try?

My older sister is the only person that will force me to get off this seat.
And my nephew will too. We fought over the computer.
My sister is the reason why I have 2 college degrees. She will come
here from Guam in June... I don't know if she will kick my ass out the house too.

 

[The*Empress]

I´m mother of 2 children but I work 40 hours a week from Mon to Fri as full time.

Wow.

 

[The*Empress]

One good example, you really can't read other's kids mind... but if you had your own kid, you CAN easily read their mind! I couldn't believe this once my son try something that I would not approve of. He was puzzled how I know in advance... That is because I think the same way he thinks.

I understand. I understand my mom as well. Even my dad.
Even though I didn't live with my dad... but before he
died, he told me to graduate from college, and I did.
That was in year 1999.

 

[Tousi]

Your destiny doesn't look good. You throw up all kinds of barriers as defenses for why you can't do this or that. Now you say it's up to God......somebody needs a heaping dose of reality.

 

[The*Empress]

Because I am happy... being on the computer internet.
Listening to Mariah Carey's CD, watching tv... and eating
fried chicken....
It is sooo relaxing...
no stress....

I can't get off my ass.... I am soooo lazy. Why
give all of this up...

 

[downing]

I am a mom to two boys (age 3 and 1), I work full time - 40 hrs a week (5 am to 1 pm, M-F) and full time mom in the rest of afternoons to evening.

I guess you say I work 2 full time jobs.

 

[horselover61]

I am a mom of 1 kid and I enjoy it alot. My goal is to find a job and save money so I can move out of this stupid mobile home park. Cuz the park rent costing me too much. I rather to own a house with a land. Period. So that is my destiny. It will take me a long time but well worth it.

 

[diehardbiker]

Amen!

I like the way you say about mobile home. Yes, your right still have to rent a spot in park.

Owning a home is alot cheaper than renting ANYTHING! I proved myself already, and I can't find any property rental thats cheaper than my mortgage already!

I am a mom of 1 kid and I enjoy it alot. My goal is to find a job and save money so I can move out of this stupid mobile home park. Cuz the park rent costing me too much. I rather to own a house with a land. Period. So that is my destiny. It will take me a long time but well worth it.

 

[Steel X]

Perhas if you watch "Forrest Gump"...you may find the defintion on destiny.

one of the best films in history so far. I absloutely loved it.

 

[mlkshkgrl]

Destiny

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That to which any person or thing is destined; predetermined state; condition foreordained by the Divine or fate; lot; doom.

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The fixed order of things; invincible necessity; fate; a resistless power or agency conceived of as determining the future, whether in general or of an individual.


It doesnt matter if you sit at home on your ass or if you are active in every communtiy program. Destiny will happen in its own time and way.

 

[Cheri]

Well, what if I want to be a housewife and a mother...
and not want a job?

Will I have destiny?

I don't care about career and all, big house and stuff.

Without a man? To have a baby, a woman needs a man because being a single mother is no picnic, It's hard work and takes up a lot of your time. You would have to get a job in order to provide for your child. Having a baby doesn't come cheap, there are diapers to change, bottles to pour, feeding, pamper and caring for you baby and a lot of debts. Don't count on child support cuz it isn't always a smooth ride.

 

[Gemtun]

Without a man? To have a baby, a woman needs a man because being a single mother is no picnic, It's hard work and takes up a lot of your time. You would have to get a job in order to provide for your child. Having a baby doesn't come cheap, there are diapers to change, bottles to pour, feeding, pamper and caring for you baby and a lot of debts. Don't count on child support cuz it isn't always a smooth ride.

Amen, Cheri. I second that!

 

[FeistyChick]

Well, what if I want to be a housewife and a mother...
and not want a job?

Will I have destiny?

I don't care about career and all, big house and stuff.

it seems like you think EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS THAT SIMPLE/EASY!?!? i guess you have had everything "HANDED/SPOONFED" to you.. why don't you try to be out on your own?? hmmm... :roll:

 

[Swede]

Because I am happy... being on the computer internet.
Listening to Mariah Carey's CD, watching tv... and eating
fried chicken....
It is sooo relaxing...
no stress....

I can't get off my ass.... I am soooo lazy. Why
give all of this up...

Your dream being housewife & being mother won't happen if you can't get off your ass & go out enjoying your life! You'll have better chance finding a right man this way.

 

[racheleggert]

Without a man? To have a baby, a woman needs a man because being a single mother is no picnic, It's hard work and takes up a lot of your time. You would have to get a job in order to provide for your child. Having a baby doesn't come cheap, there are diapers to change, bottles to pour, feeding, pamper and caring for you baby and a lot of debts. Don't count on child support cuz it isn't always a smooth ride.

My mom is single mother of 5 kids.. she is working and going to school to provide us with house and food.. I've seen stress from my mom being single mother, and as Cheri said, it's no picnic. At least me, my sis, 2 brothers (older lives on his own) are old enough, and we have to earn money to get what we want. At least my mom keep herself busy, and I do keep myself busy working 5 jobs (unpaid and paid) and going to school. If I had kid, and I know how I would feel... Sometimes I have to take care of my nephews on weekend when I get home, and I have no free time...