it's nothing with deafness. just people is people like you and me.
the individual has weak and strenght. whoever found your weak area then control your area. For examples, you can tell that person is dork girl always lair all the time and make up the stories. you found very obviously answer then walk to her and speak direct to her. you tell her blah blah blah whatever you speak of your mind. She then feel shit.(glup!) she knew you have your own knowledge between weak and strenght.
let me share with you. my parent got divorced when i was 8 years. They are very conflict personaly and strong characters because they met each other when they are very young like 16 to 18 age. They didnt grow as develop themsevles to understand what is about. anyway my parent discovered new lover as attractive the parneter. They both feel comfortable because they have postive and negative. They both lived together longer and happy together than they first lived together. All about is balance.
if postive is postive or negitive is negitive, then it's screw up!
make sense? isnt it?