hey there!
i'm new here and i admit,if it wasn't about me dating a deaf woman,i wouldn't know about this website.it shows how sheltered i was before and i'm willing to learn and adapt a few lifestyle.but, i'm not here to talk about me, i'm here to learn a few things about being in a relationship with a deaf woman. pretty much the pros and cons.hehehe..
so,i've met my girlfriend while i was working temporarily(2 weeks!) at a coffee shop.i was the barista and she was pretty much in charge in the kitchen since she was deaf and refused to communicate with customers. while we were working together, we're pretty much close since i was the only one who wanted to communicate with both sign and lip-reading. at first, i never knew that she was interested since she told me that she's a divorcee and has two sons. so,i treated her nothing more than just a pet sister.
hence, after i'd quit, she'd started texting me and we texted frequently like everyday. i was surprised with her broken language and smileys but i'd learned that it's probably due to the fact that MYSL(malaysian sign language) was the first language that she'd learned.and now, it's obvious that she wanted more when we held hands and shared our first kiss.
the real deal is, it's been a while since the last time that i was in a relationship.i just wanna know how it is with a deaf person.i wanna know about their emotions, interests, their stands about their partner willingness to learn sign and refusal,communications and arguments and also,sex. yes, i wanna know how to encounter sexually with a deaf person.so, that's all for me. any type of responses is very much welcome! tq and sorry if u found me rambling.
i'm new here and i admit,if it wasn't about me dating a deaf woman,i wouldn't know about this website.it shows how sheltered i was before and i'm willing to learn and adapt a few lifestyle.but, i'm not here to talk about me, i'm here to learn a few things about being in a relationship with a deaf woman. pretty much the pros and cons.hehehe..
so,i've met my girlfriend while i was working temporarily(2 weeks!) at a coffee shop.i was the barista and she was pretty much in charge in the kitchen since she was deaf and refused to communicate with customers. while we were working together, we're pretty much close since i was the only one who wanted to communicate with both sign and lip-reading. at first, i never knew that she was interested since she told me that she's a divorcee and has two sons. so,i treated her nothing more than just a pet sister.
hence, after i'd quit, she'd started texting me and we texted frequently like everyday. i was surprised with her broken language and smileys but i'd learned that it's probably due to the fact that MYSL(malaysian sign language) was the first language that she'd learned.and now, it's obvious that she wanted more when we held hands and shared our first kiss.
the real deal is, it's been a while since the last time that i was in a relationship.i just wanna know how it is with a deaf person.i wanna know about their emotions, interests, their stands about their partner willingness to learn sign and refusal,communications and arguments and also,sex. yes, i wanna know how to encounter sexually with a deaf person.so, that's all for me. any type of responses is very much welcome! tq and sorry if u found me rambling.